Analyzing my poem "Your kindness is tested" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Friday, 8/8/25!!

                                            Blog: Analyzing my poem "Your kindness is tested" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 8/8/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone whose kindness is being taken advantage of! This blog is for y'all! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all doing okay? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever got y'all down, I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap of Wednesday's blog episode which was about my poem "Trouble". When I think about the word "trouble", what comes to mind is someone who is going down the wrong path and following the wrong crowd! Please, don't follow the wrong crowd because those people are going to lead you to a path of destruction and you don't need that in your life! I love y'all! Want to know more about this blog? Well, you can check it out right here: →My poem "Trouble"!!← Link right here!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Your kindness is tested" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog episode is dedicated to anyone whose kindness is being taken advantage of! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about my kindness being tested, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? How is my kindness tested? Why is my kindness tested at times? Without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? 

On Saturday, June 28th of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Your kindness is tested" and this is how it goes: "Your kindness is tested" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Your kindness is tested when

people use your kindness! Your 

kindness is tested when people 

are mean to you! When you 

people test your kindness, it 

begins to question who to be

kind to! Be kind to people who 

are kind to you".

Love, Brandee Marie Darden!! 

Date of poem: Typed on Saturday, 6-28-25!! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when people go and stab you in the back and they take your kindness for granted, it hurts a lot!! You never want to be used for your kindness! When people use you for your kindness, it hurts so much!! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because people will use you for kindness and that's hard because people will see how kind you are and they will think to themselves and say "Let's use this person for their kindness" and people will use you and if they use you, they are using you for the wrong reason and let people use you for the right reason!! 

My kindness being tested?  

When I think about my kindness being tested, what comes to mind? When I think about my kindness being tested, I think about people using my kindness to their advantage!! When people see how nice I am, they will be like "Let's use her" and sure enough, they do use me and that hurts me at the end of the day!! When people use me for my kindness, it hurts me and I feel like people don't see even though I am being kind to them, they don't see what they are doing to me is hurting me at the end and it honestly hurts so much!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because I have had people use me for my kindness and I definitely had my kindness tested before and to be honest with y'all, it hurts me so much because when you are so kind to someone and then, they go behind your back and stab you, that doesn't feel so good at all! I have been stabbed in my back before and it doesn't feel great at all because I have been there for others and it hurts so much!! I have been kind to others but they don't care about that at all!! 

How?

How is my kindness tested? I think my kindness is tested is by people stabbing me in the back by using me and using me as an easy target! Throughout my life, I have been an easy target!! Y'all are probably wondering, "Brandee, what do you mean by easy target"? What I mean by easy target is people will see how kind I am and they will see how I treat people and they will treat me the same way and then, I will fall into their trap and they will test my kindness! People are very manipulative and they can hurt you so much and I had that happen to others and it hurts so much!! 

Why?

Why is my kindness tested at times? The reason why kindness is tested at times is because people see me as an easy target and they they I am easy to manipulate and the truth is I can see people's ways and I know how they are and they can trick me all they want to but deep down, I know how people are and you can fool me all you want, but I see you and I know how you are! People can use me all they want to but I know your tricks and you can hurt me all you want to but you can't put me down anymore because I am strong and I won't give up!! I had people use my kindness and I am not going to tolerate it anymore!! I might be nice but trust me, once you get me mad, I'm mad and I don't want nothing to do with you anymore!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, your kindness can be tested! People can see how nice you are and how kind you are and they will test you until you can't be tested anymore and once people can't use you anymore, they move on and find someone else and people are cruel in this world because all they care about is using you and try to get something out of you!! I had people use me time to time because of how kind I am and that's hard for me!!! I will be there for people time to time but when I am in need of someone reaching out a hand to me, I have no one and it hurts me so much! All I want is people to be there for me and I feel like I have no one and it is not far for me!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is Reach out your hand to someone and be kind to them because we need more people in this world and we need to treat people the way others need to be treated!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! Y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! I pray that y'all got something out of it! The moral of this blog episode is we need to be careful who we be nice to because that person could be using you and that's hurts so much!! To know that you are nice to a person and that person isn't nice to you, it is messed up in so many ways! People will use your kindness to your advantage and that's hard on you!! Don't let people use your kindness to your advantage because if you, you are letting that person bring you down and that is rough on you! For today's quote of the day, it is by Toby Mac and it says "We Worry About Tomorrow Like It's Promised". -Toby Mac. Tomorrow is never promised! We need to live each day like it's our last day! Tomorrow is never promised and we need to learn how to be kind to others because something bad could happen to that person! Be kind to others!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for next week's blog episodes on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about my poems as well and those poems are "A sense of emptiness", "Marriage", and "Walking imperfectly". Stay tuned for those blog episodes! I love y'all and Jesus also loves you so much as well and have a good day or had a good day! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday and I will see y'all next week! I love y'all! Let's share how amazing and wonderful God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! 🧡🧡🧡🧡

Today's quote of the day!! Tomorrow is never promised!! People think tomorrow is promised and it's not! Something can happen at any moment and we need to spend time with the people that we love because our time on this earth can be short!! Tomorrow is never promised!! 

My  poem that I did on Saturday, June 28th of this year!! People will use your kindness and once they are done with you, they don't care about you and it hurts you so much! Be careful who gets your kindness!! 

"It Takes Courage
To Be Kind". 
-Maya Angelou. People are so mean these days that it takes courage to be kind to others when they are mean to you!! Be kind to others when people aren't being kind to you!! 

"The real test is 
being kind to unkind 
people".
-Unknown. People can be unkind to you and all you are doing to them is kind to them!! That is what is called courage because people aren't the nicest but you are treating that person nicely!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For the song of the week, I chose "Killin' It Girl" by: J-Hope of BTS. I chose this song for the week is because I see what my girlies are doing each day and I see y'all are trying! Don't give up trying because you are doing amazing and I love y'all and so does Jesus!! Let's share how amazing and wonderful God's love is and how cool Jesus is today and see y'all next week!! ❤️❤️❤️

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Trouble" By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 8/6/25!!

                                           Blog: Analyzing my poem "Trouble" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 8/6/25. This blog episode is dedicated to anyone who is following the wrong crowd!! Don't follow the wrong crowd!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day!! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all doing okay? Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you down in the dumps, just know that y'all are loved and I'm here for y'all always, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from Monday!! On Monday, I talked about my poem "Judging others". When I think about the title of the poem, I think about how we shouldn't judge others before you get to know that person because you don't know what they are going through or what their situation is because people might be going through a tough situation and they might be dealing with a lot!! Be careful who you judge!! Want to know about this blog? You can check it out right here: →"Judging others" by: Brandee Marie Darden! ← Link right here!! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Trouble" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is following the wrong crowd!! Don't follow the wrong crowd! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "trouble", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? How people can cause trouble? Why can people can cause trouble like that? Without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning of this poem? Why is there meaning behind of this poem? 

On Saturday, June 28 of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Trouble" and this is how it goes: "Trouble" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! 

"Trouble comes when you

follow the wrong crowd! 

Trouble comes from when 

you hang around the wrong 

person! Trouble is when you

listen to Satan! Stay out of 

trouble and don't listen to 

Satan"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 

Date of my poem: Saturday, 6-28-25! What is the meaning of this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when you get into trouble, you are either following the wrong crowd or hanging around the wrong person or listening to Satan! When you do those things, you are not doing nice things! Stay away from people who will get you into trouble and have good friends who follow the Lord!! Why is there meaning behind  of this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because there are people who tend to like to get into trouble and cause trouble! We shouldn't follow people who are in the wrong crowd! We need to be careful who we hangout because people can influence us in a positive way or a negative way and we need to be careful what we do!! 

The word "trouble"!! 

When I think about the word "trouble", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "trouble", I think about someone who is going down the wrong path of life and who causes a lot of trouble! When  a person causes a lot of trouble, I think about them going down the wrong path of life!! When they go down the wrong path of life, they are picking stuff that is not right for them!! Never go down of life!! 

Why?

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because people will go down the wrong path of life and people will make the wrong mistakes!! When you make the mistakes in life, you learn from those mistakes and you grow!! Don't let the wrong mistakes lead you on a path of destruction because that's what would happen!! Don't make the same mistake over and over again because you are not learning from your mistakes!! 

How?

How people can cause trouble? People can cause trouble in so many ways but the way people can cause trouble is by breaking stuff! When people are breaking stuff, they have no respect of what you have and that hurts a person! Another way a person can cause trouble is by breaking the law!! People can break the law all the time and when people the law, they could be stealing stuff which is wrong and I don't condone that in anyway or killing people! When you are killing people, they are leaving prints on the murder weapon and they are making the crime scene messy!! We need to be careful who we hang out!! 

Why?

Why can people cause trouble like that? The 1st reason why people can cause trouble by breaking stuff is because when you and another person talk about what is going on and you and that person get into this argument and all of the sudden, it becomes a fighting war, you and that person will throw things and start breaking things which is not good at all! When you and that person start throwing things at each other and breaking things, y'all are causing trouble and when that happens, it is messy! Don't cause trouble by breaking things!! The 2nd and final reason why people can cause trouble by breaking the law is because when you break the law, you are causing a lot of trouble in the community and within your family!! When you are causing a lot of trouble in the community and within your family, it is never good at all especially when you are involved in killing someone! Be careful what you are doing!! Just saying!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, people can cause trouble all the time and don't realize it that they are causing trouble until they are doing it!! When you are causing trouble, they are making a mockery of themselves and not realizing what they are doing until they are showing their true colors and when they show their true colors, then they know what they are doing wrong!! Causing trouble is never good because you are destroying the relationships that you have and you are hurting the people that have been there for you through thick and thin! People might like getting into trouble but not a lot of people don't like doing the same thing!! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is stay out of trouble because once you stay out of trouble, you are more clear headed and you are making the right decisions for you and your life! Please, make the right decisions for your life because if you are make the wrong decisions for your life, you are going down the wrong path of life and you don't need that in your life!! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! I hope and pray that everyone enjoyed today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is be careful not to get into trouble because once you get into trouble, it is hard to get out of trouble! Never get into trouble because you will cause ruckus in your life and you will go down the wrong path of life! You have a good life ahead and you don't want to mess that up because something you did in your life!! Causing trouble is never worth it and you don't want to mess up relationships because of that!! For today's quote of the day, it is "Energy Is Contagious: Either You Affect People Or You Infect People". -Unknown. When you are around people, they can have an energy where the affect you in a positive way or they can infect you in a negative way to the point where they can bring you down! Don't have those people in your life! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about "Your kindness is tested" which is true!! I love y'all and happy Wednesday or in other countries, happy Thursday and let's share how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 

Today's quote of the day! You can have an energy where you can affect people in a positive way or your energy where you can infect people in a negative way! Be careful what you do!! 

My poem that I did about "trouble". The meaning behind this poem is when you are following the wrong crowd or hanging around people, you are influenced by them and don't do what they are doing because you are your own person!! 

"The trouble 
with trouble
is, it starts 
out as fun".
-Anonymous. When you are doing something that might cause trouble, it won't be trouble until you do something fun and that's when the truly begins! You can still have fun and not get into trouble!

"Trouble people, 
cause trouble..."
-Unknown. People cause trouble all the time and when people are troubled, they are doing something reckless that they don't know what they are thinking!! 

I love y'all so much from the bottom of my heart and please, don't do something that is reckless and that could potentially ruin your life because once you do something harmful and hurtful, you ruin your life! Be careful what you do! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out!! ❤❤❤

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Judging others" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/4/25!!

                                  Blog: Analyzing my poem "Judging others", by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 8/4/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been judged!! You don't deserve that at all! You are made in an image of God! Don't let anyone judge you!! I love y'all! 

Intro to my blog!!

Well, hello my wonderful and amazing Blogger Dreamers! How are y'all doing today? Are y'all okay? Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you stumped, just know that God will help you out of the funk and God will lead you out of the dumps that y'all are going through!! I love y'all and guess who else loves you? Jesus and God loves you!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! I hope and pray that everyone had a wonderful weekend! Last week, I came back to blogging and on my Makeup and fashion blog page, on Monday- I talked about how would I want my hair and makeup for our wedding? Well, I will be getting married and if I had to pick a certain hair style for our wedding, it would have to be a braid with curls!! I think it would look absolutely beautiful and gorgeous!! On Wednesday, I talked about what is my favorite colors that me and my fiancé has matched, part 2? I could pick a favorite color that me and my fiancé has matched, it would have to be a maroon Dr. Pepper shirt!! I thought we looked absolutely amazing and nice!! On Friday, I talked about my ideal outfit and makeup for me and fiancé's dress rehearsal for our wedding! If I could pick an ideal outfit for me and my fiancé's wedding, it would have to be a white tank top with a white see through shirt with a black ruffle skirt and black and white flower shoes! It would look absolutely beautiful and stunning plus, it gives off wedding vibes which I live for!! Want to check them out? Link right here: →Makeup & Fashion blog page!!  ← Please, go give them a read whenever y'all can!! Please! Thank you all so much! On this week's blog episodes for the week, I will be analyzing my 3 poems which are "Judging others", "Trouble", and "Your kindness is tested". Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes for the week and without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!  

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Judging others" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been judged!! You don't deserve it at all!! You are made in an image of God! Don't let anyone judge you!! I love y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about title of the poem, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? What should we do before we judge others? Why should we do that before we judge others? Why did I choose this blog episode to talk about? The reason why I choose this blog episode to talk about because there is so much judgement in this world today that it needs to stop and I am praying it will stop soon!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Killin' it Girl" by: J-Hope of BTS!! When I listen to this song, I think about to the women in my life who are killing it in life! Y'all are doing such an amazing job and I am so proud of y'all!! Keep killing it!! Why did I choose this song of the week? I choose this song for the week because us women are killing it in this world and we are doing such an amazing job!! Keep working hard!! 

Talking about the poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? 

On Thursday, July 3rd of this year, I typed up a poem called "Judging others" by: Brandee Marie Darden and this is how it goes: "Judging others" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! 

"Judging others is wrong! Judging others 

is hurting that person! Judging others 

while you are imperfect yourself! Before 

you get to judging others, know their 

situation! Don't judge someone"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! 

Typed on Thursday, 7/3/25! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is  judging others is wrong!!! When you judge others, you are judging others by either clothes or what they look like or even what they are going through and before you start to judge others, think about what they are going through and think about their situation!! Why is there meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because judging others is wrong and you are putting those people down without knowing what their situation is! Before you start judging what they are going through, think about what their situation is because once you start to think about their situation is, you will think twice when you are start to judge them!! 

The title! 

When I think about the title of the poem, what comes to mind? When I think about the title of the poem, I think what comes to mind is when people judge other people! People can judge others by what they look like or their clothing or even what they are going through! We have enough judging going through in this life right now that we need to stop, pause, and think about how that person is going to feel if you judge them! We need to think about what that person is going through!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it come to mind like that is because people don't think about the consequences of judging others by what they wear or what they are going through and in all honesty, that is really sad!! People think judging others is okay which is not! I don't believe in judging others because it is wrong! Have I been judged? Yes because I love K-pop and some of my family judged me and it hurt my feelings!! Judging is wrong!! 

Before we judge others? 

What should do before we judge others? Before we should judge others, we should think about what that person is going through at that very moment! We need to think about what kind of situation they are in! We never know what that person is going through at the very moment and we need to be kind and considerate in their situation!! We need to show compassion and love to that person! We need to be compassionate just like how Jesus is towards us!! 

Why? 

Why should we do that before we judge others? The reason why we should think about what that person is going through at that very moment is because we don't know what that person is going through until we are going through it as well! We need to think what that person is feeling and how that person is feeling! We have enough people who can judge and we need to think about what that person is going through!! We don't think about what that person is going through and that is sad! We need to stop judging others! God is the only one who will judge others!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, I don't think people realize how hurtful judging others is until they are doing it and we have enough critics in this world that we don't need more people to judge!! Judging others is wrong and disrespectful!! It breaks my heart when I hear or see others judging other people!! I don't believe in judging others! The only person who needs to judge us is God because he knows our hearts and he knows what we are thinking!! God doesn't like ugly and we need to think what we say because what we say or what we think about a person can hurt that person! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is think before you say something about a person because once you say something about a person, you can't take it back and it can hurt that person forever! I love y'all so much!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is before we start to judge others, we need to stop, pause, and think about what we should say because if we tell others how we feel about them and start judging them, it could hurt them and bring them down and we don't need to judge others because there are enough critics in this world!! We need to stop judging others and hurting them! It's wrong and we need to show others how much they are loved in this world! We need more love in this world instead hate!! Just saying!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Toby Mac and it is "The Past Is Where You Learned The Lesson. The Future Is Where You Apply The Lesson". -Toby Mac. When you learn something from your past, you take what you learn and apply it in the future! Take what you learn and apply it to the future! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day and see y'all on Wednesday where I will talk about my poem "Trouble". Stay tuned for that blog and with that being said, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and Let's share God's love and share how cool Jesus is today! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! See Ya!! 💙💚💙💚💙💚💙💚💙💚💙💚

Today's quote of the day!! We need to apply what we learned from our past into the future!! Apply what you learned and take it to the future!! 

My poem "Judging other" that typed on Thursday, July 3rd, 2025!! We need think before we start to judge others because it is wrong to judge others! When I hear others judging other people, my heart breaks and it kills me!! 

"Judging others is 
easy because it 
distracts us from 
the responsibility of 
judging ourselves". 
Unknown. Instead of judging ourselves, it is easier to judge others but we need to look in the mirror and think about what is wrong with ourselves and judge ourselves instead of others!! 

"Judging a person
does not define
who they are.
It defines
who you are".
-Unknown. When you judge others, it is showing what you are and how you act because you are showing how you are as a person which is wrong!! 

To end today's blog episode for the day, for this week's song of the week, it is "Killin' It Girl" by: J-Hope of BTS (solo version). This song is going to my girls who are killing it whatever they are doing in their life or to the guys who are trying to get the girl!! Keep doing it and not giving up! I love y'all and have a wonderful day or had a wonderful day! I love y'all! 💚💚💚


 

Blog: What is my goal as a wife? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 7/11/25!!

                                            💜  Blog: What is my goal as a wife? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Friday, 7/11/25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who is a wife or becoming a wife soon! This blog is for y'all! 💙 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all might be going through or whatever got you down, just know that y'all are loved and I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Who is ready for an all new weekly blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from Wednesday! On Wednesday, I talked about analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden aka me!! One of the ways being loved wrong is not getting enough attention! When you are married or in a relationship, you are suppose to give your significant partner enough love and attention that they deserve and if they are not getting enough attention from you, that's heartbreaking and sad because your significant partner deserves your attention!! Want to know more about this blog episode? You can check it out right here: →being loved wrong! Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much! Now, for today's blog episode for the day, I will be talking about what is my goal as a wife? This blog is dedicated to anyone who is a wife or becoming a wife soon! This blog is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe 3 goals as a wife, what would those goals be? Why would those be my goals as a wife? What is my #1 goal as a wife? Why would that be my #1 goal as a wife? Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

What type of wife would I be? Why would I be that type of a wife one day? 

What type of wife would I be? The type of a wife that I would be is a caring and loving wife! I could see myself be that wife who would do the house chores but also make sure my husband was well taken care of! I want my husband to know how much I love him and care about him!! I want to make sure he doesn't have to do anything but relax and enjoy his Dr. Pepper!! Why would I be that type of a wife one day? The reason why I would be that type of a wife one day is because every husband deserves to have a caring and loving wife and I want to make sure to give my husband that loving and caring wife!! I want to make sure my husband is happy!! 

3 goals as a wife!

If I could describe 3 goals as a wife, what would those goals be? For the 1st goal as a wife, I want to be a caring wife! I want my husband to know how much I care about him and how much I would do anything to make sure that he worth taking care of!! For the 2nd goal as a wife, I want to be a loving wife! I want to make sure my husband is loved by me everyday! I don't want them to feel like they are alone!! No one should ever feel like they are alone!! The 3rd and final goal as a wife, being supportive! I believe in being supportive towards your husband! I believe in supporting their goals and telling them that they are not alone!! I believe that no matter what your husband is going through, I believe in being supportive!! 

Why?

Why would those be my goals as a wife? The reason why I chose the 1st goal as a wife is because I want my husband to know how much I care about him and that I will always care about him, no matter what! I want to put my feelings aside and take care of my husband because I want him to know that I care and I will listen to him! The 2nd reason why I chose the 2nd goal as a wife is because I want my husband to feel loved because everyone deserved to be loved! No one doesn't deserved to be loved because everyone deserves to be loved and I want my husband to know that I love him and I will always love him, no matter what! The 3rd and final reason why I chose the 3rd goal as a wife is because being supportive towards your husband in his goals will mean a lot to him! I believe in being supportive in your partner's dreams and I believe in supporting your husband in what he loves doing!! 

#1 goal as a wife? 

What is my #1 goal as a wife? I would have to say my number #1 goal as a wife is being a loving wife! I want my husband to know how much I love him! I want him to know that I would do anything for him and I want to him to know that no matter how hard life can be, I will love him unconditionally and that he will see the love through me! Everyone deserves to be loved and I want him to feel loved, no matter what!! 

Why?

Why would that be my #1 goal as a wife? The reason why I chose to be loving wife as my number #1 goal as a wife is because I want my husband to know that my wife is loving and she will do anything for me and I want my husband to feel safe with me and I want him to know that I can be a shoulder to cry on through everything that he is going through and I want him to know that everything will be alright despite our differences and what is going on through our heads!! I want him to know that I will love him through thick and thin and I will get him through everything!!! 

In closing/ Questions of the day? 

In closing, I want to be that wife who will show my care to my husband and tell him that I will always care about him, no matter what! I want him to know that I will do anything for him to show him how much I love him! Everyone needs love in their life and I want my husband to know how much he is loved and I want to show my husband how much I love him, no matter what!! I want to be that support system for my husband! If no one else is in his corner, then I will be in his corner and I want him to know that I will support him through thick and thin and to know that he will do great in whatever he loves doing! To my ladies who are wives or becoming a wife or has a vision for their man, my questions for y'all is What are 3 goals as a  wife for you? Why would you choose those goals as a wife for you? To my guys who are husbands or becoming husbands or has a vision for their woman, my question for y'all is What are your 3 goals as a husband? Why would you choose those goals as a husband for you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know!! I would love to read and respond to y'all! Please! Thank you all so much!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and I want to remind everyone that y'all reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! For me as a wife, I want my husband to know that I care about him unconditionally, I love him unconditionally, and I will always support him, no matter what! For me, I want to be a good wife and that loving and caring wife that my husband deserves because every husband deserves that wife who will do anything for him, no matter what and I want that for my husband! I never want my husband to feel that I don't love him or care about him or even supporting him because no one doesn't deserve that!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "If God wants you to be with someone, he'll make it happen at the right time and with the right person. Don't force it". -Unknown Author. God will send you the right person in your life and when the time is right, he will make that happen! Only trust God's timing because God's timing is never wrong! I love y'all and so does Jesus! Have a good Friday or have a good Saturday!! Stay tuned for an all new blog episodes coming next week on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about my two poems "No longer" and "Friends to strangers" and being loved wrong by the wrong partner. Stay tuned for these blogs and don't forget to always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share how amazing God's love and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and so does Jesus and see ya on the flip side!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Today's quote of the day!! When God sends you the right person for your life and you want to be with them, don't force it because only God can tell you within his timing! Trust his timing!! 

"A wife should treat her 
husband more special 
than any other man 
she knows". 
-Unknown. No guy should never get any other treatment from any other girl other than his wife!! Treat your man right and give him the special treatment that he deserves!! 

"A really happy marriage is made up
of a HUSBAND who is regularly 
praised by his wife and a WIFE 
who is constantly pursued by her 
husband". 
-Unknown. You should always praise your husband for what he is doing in life and being his wife, you should pursued him and no other men because those men don't need your attention! Show your husband how much you love him because he needs to be reminded!! 

"One of my biggest goals as a
wife is to make my husband
excited to come home to see me,
where he feels loved,
appreciated, and truly at
peace".
-Unknown. I want my husband to know that he is loved by me and how much he is appreciated and to feel at peace knowing that he has me in his corner! I don't want him to ever feel alone and I want him to know that he has someone who loves him!! 

Curse word ahead! To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Outskirts" by Sam Hunt because it is very upbeat and I absolutely love this song so much!! This song is so good! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Peace! 🩷🩷🩷





 

Blog: Analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Wednesday, 7-9-25!!

                                             Blog: Analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 7-9-25!! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been loved wrong! No one deserves that! This blog episode is for y'all!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back  to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got you down in the dumps, I am always here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that i am but first, a blog recap from Monday! On Monday, I talked about what does right place, wrong time mean? In my mind, the meaning of right place, wrong time is that person or that thing is happening at the right place but the timing was off!! There will be times where the places was right but the timing would be off a lot and that is never good! Want to know more about this blog? You can check it out right here: →right place, wrong time? Please, go give my blog a read! Please! Thank you all so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden! This blog is dedicated to anyone who has been loved wrong! No one deserves that! This blog episode is for y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about what are 3 ways being loved wrong? Why are those 3 ways being loved wrong? How was I loved wrong? Why was I loved wrong? What kind of advice would I give to anyone who is loved wrong? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are loved wrong? Without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? 

On Tuesday, June 17th, of this year, I typed up a new poem called "Being loved wrong" and this is how it goes: "Being loved wrong" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Being loved wrong means not 

getting the attention that you

needed! Being loved wrong 

means not being cared for! 

Being loved wrong means the 

person is yelling and the other 

person flinches!! Being loved 

wrong means being abandoned! 

Don't be loved by the wrong 

person! Be loved by the right 

person"! 

Love, Brandee Marie Darden! Typed up on Tuesday, June 17th, 2025!! What is the meaning behind this poem? The meaning behind this poem is when you are loved by the wrong person, they don't give you enough attention or when y'all get in a argument, the person will yell while the person flinches!!! When you are abandoned by the person that you thought you loved, they leave high and dry!! Being loved by the wrong person can be hurtful at times!! Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because when you get in a argument, the person who is yelling, they could become violent and the person who isn't yelling is flinching and starts crying because it brings back old memories! Be careful how you love a person because what you do can trigger something from their past!

3 ways!

What are 3 ways being loved wrong? The 1st way being loved wrong is not getting the attention that you absolutely deserve! When I think about being in a relationship, I think about being in love and getting the attention that you deserve but in reality, there are some couples who have to fight to get that attention and that's wrong right there!! The 2nd way being loved wrong is no communication! If you and your partner aren't communicating, things are going to blow over and that's not good at all!! When you and your partner aren't communicating, things can escalate and that's hard!! The 3rd and final way being loved wrong is being accused wrongly!! When I think about that, I think about the guy blaming the girl for something that she didn't do or vice versa!! When the girl is getting blamed for something that she didn't do, things turn into a fight and that's not good at all!! 

Why?

Why are those 3 ways being loved wrong? The 1st way being loved wrong is not getting the attention that you absolutely deserve and the reason why it is one of the ways being loved wrong is because when you are in a relationship, everyone deserves to be loved and have that affection with their partner but that person doesn't get that love and attention, they are hurting and that's hurting them!! The 2nd way being loved wrong is no communication and the reason why it is the 2nd way being loved wrong is because when you are in a relationship or even a marriage, communication should be everything and if y'all are not communicating, then someone is hiding something and that hurts you in the long run!! Communication should be everything and if y'all don't communicate about anything, then is that really love? Nope, that's not love!! The 3rd and final way being loved wrong is being accused wrongly and the final reason why it is the 3rd and final way being loved wrong is because when you and partner are talking and they falsely accused you in something that you didn't do, that's not really love!! Instead of communicating, your partner is blaming you for something that you didn't do! 

How?

How I was loved wrong? The way that I was loved wrong is being abandoned by one parent who I thought would be there for me!! Throughout my whole life, I was abandoned by one parent who came into my life as this parent wants to! Throughout my life, this parent bought my love by getting me whatever I wanted and I didn't like that at all! I wanted to feel loved by this parent and I never felt the love that I deserve!! I always fight for someone's love even though I shouldn't!! There would be times where I would get in my head and in my head, it would say "You don't deserve love" and that would be hard for me! I had people leave me and stopped being there for me!!

Why?

Why was I loved wrong? The reason why I was loved wrong is because throughout my life, I had to find love anywhere I could find love!! I was trying to love myself but I had one person who would abandoned me and that hurt so much!! My dad showed me what love should feel like but I had one parent not show up for me throughout my life and that's hard for me! I struggled for a long time with loving myself because I didn't have the right love from people and that was hard!! 

My advice!

What kind of advice to anyone who is loved wrong? To my Blogger Dreamers who is being loved wrong, my advice to y'all is don't tolerate someone who is loving you wrong! You don't deserve that and you deserve to be loved by the right person! If you are not being loved by the right person, leave and never look back!! Everyone deserves to be loved right and if you are not being loved by a partner or a friend or even a parent, don't tolerate it and leave!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are being loved wrong? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers who are being loved wrong is because everyone deserves to be loved right by the right person because if that person is not showing you that buying gifts for you is "love", that is not really love! Buying gifts is not love! Showing you affection, giving you attention, and being there for you is love, not buying you gifts!! That's just my opinion!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, I don't believe that everyone deserves to be loved wrong! I don't believe in buying people's love because that's not really love! I believe in showing people love by affection, attention, and being there for someone that you love!! If you truly love someone, you would show that person how much you love them, you will give them the time to love that person!! No one deserves to be loved wrong and it hurts to know people can be loved wrong because I was in that situation before and it is hard for me!! My tip of the day is find people that will love you for you and be there for you, no matter what!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! The moral of this blog episode is being loved wrong is awful and I don't believe in loving people wrongly because it can hurt a person and it can bring people down!! You should always show people love that they deserve because everyone deserves to be loved and if that person doesn't feel loved, then you don't love them which is sad!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Toby Mac and it says "Worrying about if will never change the outcome". -Toby Mac. When you worry, that is not going to change anything but if you put it in God's hands, trust in God because he will take your worry away!! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day and stay tuned for Friday's blog episode where I will be talking about what is my goal as a wife? Stay tuned and don't forget to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's share the love of God and share how cool Jesus is today! Can we do that today? I think we can! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and so does Jesus and see y'all on Friday! Blogger Queen is out! See ya!! 🩷🩷🩷

Worrying about something is never going to change anything but giving it to God will change because if you trust what God has in store for you, God will change that worry!! 

My poem "Being love wrong" that I did on Tuesday, June 17th of this year!! The meaning behind this poem is being loved wrong is hurtful and no one deserved to be loved wrong!! 

"I didn't love the wrong person, But i was the wrong person 
to be loved by you". 
-Unknown. Sometimes, being loved wrong by the wrong person can be hurtful because you know everything about them and they tell things that you are secretive and that's hard when they are being distant from you!! That's hard!! 

"I wanted to feel loved without 
feeling like I was begging for it". 
-Unknown. We shouldn't beg for love because love should be given and if that person doesn't love you, don't go to that person anymore because you shouldn't tolerate it!! 

I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Don't forget to dream big! Don't give up on your dreams and don't forget to share God's love wherever you go and share how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and so does Jesus!! I love y'all!! 💚💚💚

Blog: What does right place, wrong time mean? blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Monday, 7/7/25!!

                                            Blog: What does right place, wrong time mean? Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Monday, 7/7/25!!! This blog is dedicated to anyone that might  have met people at the right place, but it was the timing that was wrong!! This blog episode is dedicated to y'all!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my wonderful Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for the day! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever the devil is trying to do in order to bring you down, don't let him because you are going to let him win and you need to beat the devil and let God win! You are loved by so many people and people care about you so much!! I love y'all!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for the day? I know that I am but 1st, here is a blog recap from last week!! Last week was my fashion and makeup blog page!! On Monday, I talked about 3 outfits that I would wear for summer! One of the outfits that I would wear for the summer would have to be my yellow shirt with my black ruffle skirt and my open toe brown wedges!! I think this outfit is perfect for the summer and it would look amazing with one of the makeup looks that I put together for the summer! On Wednesday, I talked about makeup looks for the summer! One of the makeup looks that I put together for the summer and I feel like it would look good with one of the outfits would be white eye shadow with yellow eyeshadow, gold glitter, red blush, silver highlighter, and nude lipstick!! With this look and my yellow top with my ruffle skirt and brown wedges, I think it would look amazing and gorgeous!! On Friday, I talked about my favorite outfits from this year so far! The one outfit that sticks out in my head, it would have to be my black dress with my black and white flower pointy shoes!! That outfit to me was so stunning and everything matched well together! Want to know more about these blogs? Well, you are in luck because you can check them out right here: →makeup and fashion blog page! Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you all so much!! On this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about what does right place, wrong time mean, analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong", and what is my goal as a wife? Without any further distractions or disruptions, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode!! Why did I choose this blog episode for today? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song episode for the week?

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what does right place, wrong time mean? This blog is dedicated to anyone that might have met people at the right place, but it was the timing that was wrong! This blog episode for y'all!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about in my mind, what does the right place, wrong time mean? Why in my mind does it mean that way? What are some examples that were the right place, wrong time? Why are those examples of the right place, wrong time? Why did I choose this blog episode for today? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because there are times in life where you feel like that it is the right place but it always the wrong timing and that's hard!! What is this week's song of the week? The song that I chose for the week is "Outskirts" by: Sam Hunt! This song is very upbeat and when you live in a town that is busy, you are always keeping busy!! This song is very good and I love it so much!! Why did I choose this song episode for the week? The reason why I choose this song because I love the song so much and I love where in the song where Sam Hunt sings about giving up on the fast life and raised the kids right and watch them get baptized! That got me good because one day, when in God's timing, I want me and fiancé's kids be raised right in a Godly home because I believe in raising your kids in a Godly home! I wasn't raised like that but I want our kids to be raised who Jesus is and who God is? 

What is the difference in right place, wrong timing vs wrong place, right timing?  Why is there a difference? 

What is the difference in right place, wrong timing vs wrong place, right timing? The difference between in right place, wrong timing vs wrong place, right timing is with the right place, wrong timing, it is at the right place of your life but the timing is off but with the wrong place, right timing is it is at the wrong place of your life but the timing is right!! People can come into your life in the right place of your life but the timing is off or they come in the wrong place of your life but the timing is right!! Why is there a difference? The reason why there is a difference is because people can come at the right place, wrong time or people can come at the wrong place, right timing!! You never know!!

Right place, wrong time mean?

In my mind, what does the right place, wrong time mean? In my mind, the meaning behind the right place, wrong time means whatever you got going on, it might be at the right place. but the timing was a little off! Where you at right now could be right but there is some timing that might be off and that's okay! Always wait on God's timing!!! 

Why?

Why in my mind does it mean that way? The reason why it means whatever you got going on, it might be the right place but the timing was a little off is because God might have you where you want to be but the timing is off and that's okay because our timing might be off but we can always get back on time!! God wants us to enjoy our life and if we aren't enjoying life, he will see that and that would break his heart!! Our hearts might be at the right place but the timing was just a little off and we need to figure out when the right timing could be!! 

Examples of right place, but wrong timing? 

What are some examples that were the right place, wrong time? The 1st example of right place, wrong time is this year, I wanted to go to GSA (Gospel Singers of America) but the timing was off! The past two years, I always went to GSA but this year, I didn't get to go! It was right place, but to me, the timing was wrong with Revival and now, for me planning me and my fiancé's wedding, I didn't get to go! Am I upset and sad? Yes but at the same time, I would focus on our wedding than anything! The 2nd example of right place, wrong time is I had people come into my life but the timing was off and they would come into my life but then they left but they never come into my life but that's okay! They would come into my life at the right place but the timing was off and that's okay! The 3rd and final example would be when my fiancé would ask me if we could be more than friends! I remember one time, we were texting me back and he asked me a question along the lines of "could we be more than friends" or something like that and I think it was the right place but the timing was off but that's okay!! We are now engaged and planning a wedding!! 

Why?

Why were those examples of the right place, wrong time? The 1st example of right place, wrong time is this year, I wanted to go to GSA (Gospel Singers of America) but the timing was off and the reason why this an example of right place, wrong time is because in my head, I thought it was the right place for me to go but it was the wrong time because I just got engaged and our revival was in the middle of it, so the timing was off and don't get wrong, I was sad and upset that I didn't get to go but that's okay because I would rather be focusing on our wedding and think about the details of the wedding! The 2nd example of right place, wrong time is I had people come into my life but the timing was off and the reason why this is an example of right place, wrong time is because people would come to my life at the right place but they will leave me at the wrong time because there would be times where I would need that person but that person chose to leave my life and I come to terms with that!! The 3rd and final example of right place, wrong time is when my fiancé asked me a question along the lines of "could we be more than friends" something like that and the reason why this is an example of right place, wrong time is because in his head, he wanted us to be more than friends but in my head, I was okay with being friends but after two years of convincing me that we were meant to be more than friends. here we are almost 5 years of friendship and almost 3 years of dating and two months of being engaged and planning a wedding! Times have changed but I am so happy!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!   

In closing, you can get the job at the right place but the timing was off or you found the house of your dreams but timing was off, but that's okay because God's timing is never wrong! Sometimes, the right place can happen but the wrong time can be wrong and that's okay because if you trust in your heart, everything will fall into place! I believe that everything will fall into place and when that time comes, thank God for that because he did that! For me, I was a little heartbroken when  I couldn't go to GSA but at the same time, I wanted to focus on the wedding and I'm okay with that!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is whatever you thought you were going to do with your life or the people in your life, those things are temporary and it might be the right place for those people or whatever you are doing for life but it might be the wrong timing and that's okay because God is never wrong when it comes to timing! Trust in God's timing!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for the day! People can come into your life at the right place but the timing could be off and that's okay! We should never fret over time because the one person who is in charge of timing is God and we need to trust in his timing and pray things can fall into place because once everything falls into place, you felt like you did it and you God to thank!! God can lead you on the right path and we need to trust his timing!! For today's quote of the day, it is by Toby Mac and it says "God Is Already Fixing That Situation You're Stressed About". -Toby Mac. Whatever you are stressed about, God is already fixing that situation! Behind closed doors, God is at work with that situation!! Whatever you are going through, God is already at work! Trust in God! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Stay tuned for an all new blog episode for Wednesday where I will be analyzing my poem "Being loved wrong". Stay tuned and until next time, always "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and let's show the whole world how amazing God's love is and how cool Jesus is today!! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ❤❤❤❤❤

Today's quote of the day!! When you are stressed out, you are freaking out about that thing that is making you stressed out but God is on your side and he is fixing the situation that made you stressed out! God has you covered!! 

"Sometimes the
wrong choices
bring us to
the right places".
-Unknown Author. I love this quote so much because when you make the wrong choices in life, sometimes it can bring you back to your senses and to the right place in life!! Make right choices, not wrong choices!! 

"The wrong person always 
come at the right time and the
right person always comes at
the wrong time". 
-Unknown! I absolutely agree with this quote because when wrong people come at the right time, you need those people in your life but when the right person comes at the wrong time, the timing is off and you don't like that!! 

"Right person, wrong time".
no. wrong person, waste of
my time". 
-Unknown. I love this so much because when the wrong person comes to your life, they are wasting your precious time in your life and never waste your time on a person because they aren't worth it!! 

Warning:  This song does have a curse word but for this week's song of the week, I chose the song "Outskirts" by: Sam Hunt! This song  very upbeat and I love this song so much! I love y'all and I will see y'all on Wednesday!! ❤❤❤