Monday, December 1, 2025

Title of my blog: My goals for December!! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog: Monday, 12-1-25!!

                                         🩷✨ Title of my blog: My goals for December!! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Monday, 12-1-25!! This blog episode is for anyone who is struggling to love themselves or struggling to focus on the right people! This blog episode is for y'all!! I love y'all!! 🩷✨

Intro to my blog!! ✨✨

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! Guess who is back? That's right! Your girl is back and I couldn't be anymore happier to be back! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever y'all are going through or whatever got y'all down, just know that y'all are loved and I love y'all so much!! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday!! I can't believe we are in December already but here we are!! After being off for a week, I am officially back and I am so excited to be back! Y'all are ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but 1st, a blog recap from the week of Sunday, November 16th! That week, I did a makeup and fashion blog page!! On Monday, November 17th, I talked about what kind of outfits would I wear for winter? One of the outfits that I would wear for winter is a grey long sleeve dress with a black cardigan and cheetah shoes!! This outfit is so cute and I think it would be perfect for winter!! I think it would be beautiful!! For Wednesday, I talked about what kind of makeup looks would I do for winter? One of the makeup looks that I wear for winter is a light green with a dark green with a red glitter, red blush, silver highlighter, and red lipstick! This makeup look is beautiful and it is giving Christmas vibes which I love so much!! On Friday, I talked about my outfit for Thanksgiving! My outfit that I wore for Thanksgiving is a white tank top with a brown and white sweater, cheetah skirt, and cheetah shoes! This outfit was perfect for Thanksgiving and I loved it so much!! Want to know more about these blogs? Well, please go check them out right here:→ Makeup and fashion blog page!!  ←Link right here!!! Enjoy!! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about my goals for December, what 3 lessons taught me this year, and my top 3 memories from this year!! Want to know more about this week's blog episodes for the week? Stay tuned because you don't want to miss them! I love y'all and with that being side, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 


Talking about today's blog episode!! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my goals for December!! This blog episode is for anyone who is struggling to love themselves or struggling to focus on the right people! This blog episode is for y'all! I love y'all! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could pick 3 goals for December, what would those goals for December be? Why would I pick those goals for December? If I could pick my #1 goal for December, what is that goal? Why is that my #1 goal? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I choose to talk about today's blog episode is because we are at the end of the year and I feel like each month could bring different goals for anyone and I feel like this month could be a month of happiness and love!! What is this week's song of the week? For the song of the week, I choose "Old Church Choir" by: Zach Williams. When I listen to this song, I get to wake up each morning to go to worship my Lord and Savior and no one will still my joy and have been restored because God's mercies are new every morning!! I can be joyful and not have to worry about anyone stealing my joy!! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? The reason why I choose this song for the week is because it is very upbeat but also I am so blessed to wake each morning to know that I have a God that absolutely loves me and no one can't steal my joy from me! They can try but they can't!! 


How has this year been for me? Why this year has been a year for me? 

How has this year been for me? If I could describe this year in a nut shell, I could describe it as full of emotions!! Lots of happiness, sadness, and maybe some anger but mainly, happiness and sadness! Happiness is from when my fiancé proposed to me! One of the happiest moments in the world!! Sadness is when I had to leave Louisiana to go back home in February and not knowing when you could see your man again!!  Why this year has been a year for me? The reason why this year has been a year for me it is because I had some moments where I was sad, I had moments where I was happy, and I had moments where I was angry! There were a lot good moments!! 

3 goals for December! 

If I could pick 3 goals for December, what would those goals for December be? If I could pick 3 goals for December, the 1st goal would be to remain always happy! For me, I always want to remain happy the best way that I can! I don't like being sad! I am not the one who likes to complain about life or complain about the littlest things about what is going on! For me, I want to remain happy always! The 2nd goal for December is focus on the right people! For me, I want to focus on the right people who truly care about me! I want to focus people who love me and be there for me when I am sad!! I don't want people to be there for me for the wrong reason!! The 3rd and final goal for the month December would be always love myself! I always want to strive and continue to love myself, no matter what! I think it is very important to love yourself! I always want to love myself and I will this December!! 

Why?

Why would I pick those goals for December? The 1st goal for December is to remain always happy and the reason why I want to always remain happy for December is because it is important to always remain happy, no matter what! I think it is important to be happy despite the circumstances! No matter what you go through in the season of life, you should always remain happy, no matter what! I believe in happiness and I will always believe in happiness, no matter what! We should be thankful, no matter what!! The 2nd goal for December is focus on the right people and the reason why I want to focus on the right people is because when you focus on the wrong people, it drain you so much! It is drain you so much to the point where you don't have any energy!! Don't focus on those people who care about you!! The 3rd and final goal for December would be always love myself and the reason why I love myself is because it is important to love yourself, no matter what! I think it is important to show yourself some love!! We should love ourselves for who we truly are!! 

My number #1 goal!! 

If I could pick my #1 goal for December, what is that goal? If I could pick my #1 goal for December, it would be focus on the right people! Instead of focusing on the wrong people and wasting my energy on the wrong people, I want my #1 goal to be focusing on the right people who truly care about me and who love me the way I am! Yes, loving myself and always remaining happy are important but for me, I want to put time and energy into the right people who truly care about me and I think it is important for me to do that! For me, I want to focus on the right people and I want to end this year on the high note!! 

Why? 

Why is that my #1 goal? The reason why focusing on the right people is my number #1 goal is because when I think about that goal, I think about how this entire year, I have focused on the wrong people who never cared about me and to me, that hurt so much! I would hear from randomly and never hearing from them ever again and that's hard for me to grasp and understand but this month, I am going to try my best to focus on the right people who is to be there for me through the ugly and through the good because I need people who is willing to be there for me, regardless of what I have been through!! I want people to be there for me!! 


In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, I want to end December strong by following the goals that I made for myself! I have struggled with some of these goals before in my life time and I am tired of not loving myself or focusing on the right people or even remaining happy!!! From this point forward, nothing is going to steal my joy anymore because I am going  to remain happy!! I am going to focus on the right people who has been there for me through the ugly and good, and I am going to love myself for who I am because God made me the way I am and honestly, I can say with confidence that I am proud of who I am because the person that I am is truly amazing and lovable!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is don't focus on the wrong people but instead, focus on the right people! Instead of not loving yourself, love yourself for who you truly are! Instead of not being happy, be happy because we go through seasons of life where things break us but we need to remind ourselves that God is in the midst of our problems and he will always remain in that midst!! I love y'all so much!! 

Man! Nothing feels more good than being back to doing what you love to do and for me that is blogging and doing tiktok videos for my Blogger Dreamers who watch my tiktok videos and read my blog episodes! I am proud to be doing something that God wants me to do!! This month, I want to focus on 3 things and those things are to remain happy, focus on the right people, and always love myself!! If people can't accept that for me, that I don't need those people anymore! I don't negative people let alone negative vibes in my life anymore! My focus to be more positive in my life and focus on the good people who have my best interest in my life and if you don't have my best interest in life and you would rather watch sink like the titanic, then I don't need you in my life!! Bye! Leave my life!! For today's Bible Verse of the day, it is taken from 1 John 2:15 and it says "Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him". If you love the world and you are chasing things in this world, you don't have God in you but if you are focusing on God and not chasing the world, you have the love of God in you! Don't chase the things after the world, be with God and live for God! Don't be like people in this world! Be with God! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and until next time, always remember to "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and share the love of God and share how cool Jesus is today! Also, love like Jesus, not just today but everyday!! Also, stay tuned for Wednesday's blog episode where I will be talking about what 3 lessons taught me this year? Stay tuned for that and this blogger is out! Stay hydrated and take care! Blogger Queen is out! 🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨🩷✨

Today's Bible Verse of the day!! Don't chase things that are not from God because if you are going after the world and not walking with God, then you care about the world more than God! Love God, ignore the world!! 


"The Most Important 
Thing Is To Enjoy Your 
Life- To Be Happy- It's 
All That Matters". 
-Audrey Hepburn. Instead of moping around and complaining of what you don't have in this world, let's be happy and enjoy the life we have because we one life and we go through seasons of life and that's apart of life!! Let's enjoy the little things in life, instead being upset about it!! 


"With the right vibes
and the right people, 
it's easy to create
something magical". 
-Dinah Jane. When you surround yourself with people who match your vibe and being around the right people, magic starts and when it feels like you and that person matches each other vibes, you don't want to let go of that person! Don't let go of that person!! 


"Until you love
yourself, you will
never know who
you really are and 
you won't know 
what you're really 
capable of". 
-Louise Hay. Until you prove to yourself that you love yourself, you are not going to love anyone else! Before you can love yourself, show the love to those people as well!! 


To end today's blog episode, here this week's song of the week which is "Old Church Choir" by: Zach Williams! I chose this song because no one can't steal my joy in loving my God or even stop me from going to church because I love waking every Sunday morning knowing that I get to go and be with the Lord's people!!  I love y'all and so does Jesus and have a good day!! ✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️✨❤️


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