Friday, March 8, 2024

Blog: Talking about women's empowerment day! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 3/8/24!!

                                          πŸ’œ   Blog: Talking about women's empowerment day! blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 3/8/24!! πŸ’– 

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to my mind!! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever might be bothering my Blogger Dreamers, just know y'all are amazing and I'm so proud of y'all! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode? I know that I am! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "courage". When I think about the word "courage", I think about someone's bravery or someone's who is brave! I think about someone who gets up every day for work and puts on a brave and courageous face because they don't want to worry others around them! If y'all haven't read this blog and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about the word 'courage'. Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about women's empowerment day! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about women empowerment day, what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When I think about women who have been through a lot, who comes to mind? Why does those ladies come to mind? Who do I look up to when it comes to strong and powerful ladies? Why do I look up to those ladies? Now, without further ado, let's get our blogging caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Do I consider myself a strong woman? Yes or no? Why or why not? 

Do I consider myself a strong woman? Yes or no? To answer that question, yes I do consider myself as a strong woman! I have been through so much in life where I felt like giving up which I haven't and I am not planning on giving up anytime soon! God is keeping me on this earth for a reason and I am going to keep going! I feel I have grown as a woman which I am very proud of! I feel like I have seen a lot of growth and I am so proud of myself! Why or why not? The reason why I would considered myself as a strong woman is because you would be surprise about how much I have been through in my life and no matter how many times I want to quit, I couldn't because God wanted me to push through and I just keep trying, no matter what! I feel like I have so much to live for and I feel like I could inspire the world with everything that I have been through! I will never give up!

When I think about women empowerment day... 

When I think about women empowerment day, what comes to mind? When I think about women empowerment day, I think about woman who are might be going through a tough time or women who are single moms who are going through everyday life and might be struggling! Us women need to stick together! We are strong women who will get through anything that gets in our way! We are strong and I believe that we can get through anything! We might struggle a little bit, but we will get through it! We are courageous ladies that no matter what we face on a daily basis, we will get through it! Women empowerment day is all about the women who are strong and us ladies are strong! Never give up hope!! 

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because us women go through a lot and men don't realize what we go through on a daily basis! We struggle at times and we think to ourselves that we are not strong but deep down, we are strong and I know that with God on our side, we can get through anything that comes our way! Us women don't need to tear other women down! We need to stand up for one another and pick each other up when we are falling! We don't watch another woman fall but instead, we pick each other! Let's be reminded that us ladies need to stick together, not go our separate ways! We need to help one another because helping each other is the best thing that could do for us! We don't need to let men treat us wrong! We need to find a man who will be there and treat us with respect! I am very blessed to have a man who treats me with respect! Having a man treat you with respect is the best thing that could happen in a relationship! If a man treats you with respect, you should also treat the man with the same respect as well! 

The women who has been through a lot! 

When I think about women who have been through a lot, who comes to mind? When I think about women who have been through a lot, I think about a women who is dealing with cancer! When a woman is going through cancer, she is tired and it is tiring for her family to watch her go through it but the woman is strong and the cancer isn't going to stop her! When I think about women who have been through a lot, the 2nd woman that comes to mind is when she does everything around the house and her husband or boyfriend can't help her do anything! Men - if you see your lady struggling, help her around the house because us women can't do everything around the house! We can only do so much until our body is so tired! Help us out! When I think about women who have been through a lot, the 3rd and final woman that comes to mind is a single mom! When the dad doesn't want to be in the picture, the mom does everything for the kids and that's fair for the single mom! The mom shouldn't have to do everything but instead, the father should help out as well! I appreciate those women who are trying their hardest to get through whatever they are going or trying their hardest for their child or children!  Men need to try harder because us women can't do a lot! Men need to step up and learn how to help! That's just my opinion!! 

Why?  

Why does those ladies come to mind? The 1st reason why when I think about a women who have been through a lot, I think about a women who is dealing with cancer is because cancer is an ugly disease to deal with and watching a women dealing with cancer is tough! Not only it is hurting the woman but it is hurting the family because they are watching her go through chemotherapy and that can take a toll on a person! Cancer is awful! The 2nd reason why when I about a women who have been through a lot, I think about when a lady does everything around the house is because sometimes, when you get into a relationship, you don't know if the man is going to help you or not but when a woman is cleaning the house by herself and it can take a toll on the women's body! We need help to keep the house clean and not someone make it dirty even more! Men - if you see your lady struggling, please help her out! We need help and we can't do everything by ourselves!! The 3rd and final reason why when I think about a women who have been through a lot, I think about a woman who is a single mom is because being a single mom is not easy at all! I had watch people in my life who are ladies who are single mom's and watching them struggle was hard on me! I don't think a kid or even children should grow up without a father in their life and it is sad to see children grow up without a father or for me, I had to watch one parent come in and out of my life (I am not going to say who because if you know me, you know). I appreciate the ladies who deal with a lot and don't complain! Y'all are amazing!

Who I look up to? 

Who do I look up to when it comes to strong and powerful ladies? The 1st person who I look up to is Lauren Daigle! Every time I listen to her song "You Say", I think about how strong I am and to me, she is strong and I love her a lot! The 2nd person who I look up is Katy Nichole! Her song "Hold on" has inspire me so much! That song reminds me no matter what I am going through in life, I have to keep holding on and not to give up! I will keep holding on, no matter what! The 3rd and final person who I look up to is Anne Wilson! I love Anne Wilson! When I listen to her song "strong", it reminds that I need to remain strong through my hard and difficult days! When I do my tiktok videos, I might look and sound strong and happy, but deep down inside, I am going through a battle that no one knows what I am going through except God! God knows what I am going through and when I am struggling, I think about the songs by these ladies! 

Why?

Why do I look up to those ladies? The 1st reason why I look up to Lauren Daigle is because her music to me has help me through a lot and when I listen to "You Say", I think about the things that I have said about myself and I know that God loves me for who I am! God loves me and I need to learn how to let go those things that I said about myself! The 2nd reason why I look up to Katy Nichole is because when I am going through a lot, I think about the painting that I did of her song "Hold on". I have to keep reminding myself that no matter what I am going through in life, I need to keep holding on! I need to remind myself that I need to stay strong for the people around me including my boyfriend! I need to hold on for him! The 3rd and final reason why I look up to Anne Wilson is because she is a powerful Christian musician and her song "strong" reminds me that I am going to stay strong for the people who are always on my side and who is always there for me, no matter what! I will stay strong for my friends who care about me, my family who love me, and my boyfriend who loves and cares about me and would do anything for me! These ladies are very powerful and I love each of them so much! 

In closing/ Question of the day? 

In closing, us ladies are very strong and powerful!! People don't realize what we go through on a daily basis and you know, I am proud to say that I am a strong woman who has been through a lot in my life! I grew up a lot and I learned along the way that I don't need people who don't care about me and who never cared about me in the beginning! I am proud for who I become and who I will become in the future! I appreciate the ladies who are single moms because being a single mom is not easy and watching y'all go through a lot, y'all are strong and I am so proud of y'all! People don't realize we wake up and some of us go to work or we keep the the house clean and it can be a difficult keeping the house clean! Men think it is easy to be a woman but in a reality, it is not easy at all! Men, if you see us struggling, please help us out! It is hard to do a lot of things on our own! Always treat a lady with respect because if we treat you with respect, we expect the same thing! Here is my question of the day: My question of the day is who are 3 powerful ladies do y'all look up to? Why do y'all look up to those ladies? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments! Please! Thank you all so much!! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Us women need to stick together, no matter what! Instead of tearing each other down, we should lift each other up! I don't believe in tearing other women down because it is rude and disrespectful! We need to treat each other with respect and lift and encourage other women! Let's be an encourager to other women!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Ambitious women only have 2 options: A supportive partner or no partner at all". - Unknown! I love this quote a lot because us women don't need to tolerate guys who won't support us at all! We need a partner who will support us through everything and I am very blessed to have someone who is so supportive! I love y'all and I hope and pray that everyone will have a good Friday or in other countries, a good Saturday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my 1st blogging page where I will be talking about miscommunication vs communication, talking about the word "Bravery", and what makes me encouraging? Stay tuned for all new blogs next week! I love y'all and I will see y'all next week! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌πŸ’™

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote so much because we deserve to have someone who will support us through everything and I am very blessed to have a man who supports me in everything that I do! 


"The strength of a woman is 
not measured by the impact
that all her hardships in life 
have had on her.
The strength of a woman is 
measured by the extent of her
refusal to allow those 
hardships to dictate her and 
who she becomes".
-Joy Bell C. I absolutely love this quote a lot because us women shouldn't let our hardships impact our lives, but we should show people what we have been through and we should never let anything bother us or take us down! 


Lauren Daigle - Her song "You Say" reminds me that I should never let those things bother me because God loves me for who I am! 


Katy Nichole - Her song "Hold On" reminds me to always hold on until I can't hold on anymore! I will hold on until I can't anymore! I will fight until I can't fight anymore! I will fight until my very breath!! 


Anne Wilson - Her song "Strong" reminds me that no matter how hard things can be, I have to keep going and I will keep going until I can't anymore!! 


To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "Like Crazy" by Jimin! I chose this song because it has a good beat to it and I love it so much!! Such a good song! 

Wednesday, March 6, 2024

Blog: Talking about the word "courage". by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 3/6/24!!

                                          Blog: Talking about the word "courage". by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 3/6/24!! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! Well, how are my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever my Blogger Dreamers are going through, just know that y'all are never alone in this battle and I'm here to help y'all get through it! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Who is ready for an all new blog episode for today? I know that I am but before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Monday blog episode! On Monday, I talked about meeting my boyfriend for the first time! On Sunday, February 25th of this year was the best day of my life! Meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time was the best day that I could ever experience! Spending the day with my man was amazing! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check that blog out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "courage". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "courage", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When I think about the people who have courage, who comes to mind? Why would those people come to my mind like that? If I have any advice about being courageous, what would my advice be? Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

What makes me courageous? Why does that thing make me courageous? 

What makes me courageous? I think what makes me courageous is how I wake up everyday despite what I am going through and help people and praise God everyday! I will have days where I want to give up and quit because God wants me to keep going and wants me to keep pushing through! I have to remind myself that people who I need to keep going for is my boyfriend, my friends who care about me, and the family who is there for me, no matter what! I have to remind myself that I can't quit and I am trying to stay courageous which is hard for me to do at times but I am trying to! Why does that thing make me courageous? The reason why how I wake up everyday despite what i am going through and help people and praise God everyday makes me courageous is because I might be going through in my mind or dealing with mental health issues, I want to help people and praise God because to me, praising God helps my soul! God will help me get through what I am going through! God will guide me and protect me! Lean on God!

When I think about courage, what comes to mind?

When I think about the word "courage", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "courage", the thing that comes to mind is how strong that person is! When I think about someone having courage, I think about how strong they are and they are not afraid to take risks! I am that person who doesn't care if I take risks! I am that person who will do anything for someone because I care about people! Don't be afraid to take risks for a reason! Always be courageous while taking those risks! Don't be afraid! Don't be afraid to do something out of your comfort zone! I had to do things that was out of my comfort zone and let's just say, it was scary at first but I did it! I had courage within myself!

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because people are strong all the time! People can take a certain situation and change it! With me, I take a certain situation and change it because I know that if I dwell on it, it is not going to take me anywhere and I am just going to cry about it! For me, I need to be courageous and have courage within myself because I know that God gave me that situation and he wants me to have courage about it! In life, we should never be afraid to take risks and we should always have the courage within ourselves, no matter what! We should step out of our comfort zone and not be afraid to do anything because God would want us to do anything that is along our comfort zone! Always step out your zone!! 

People who have courage! 

When I think about the people who have courage, who comes to mind? When I think about the people who have courage, I think about people who are not afraid to take risks in life! They don't care what it takes to hurt themselves, they rather take risks and have that courage! I love that! When I think about people who have courage, I also think about people who get up and put a smile on their face! When you are dealing with mental health, it is hard to get up everyday and think to yourself "is today going to be an ugly day or a good day" and that is hard for me at times! I might put a smile on my face from time to time, but does it mean that I am okay and strong? Probably not! I love how single moms are courageous as well or even single dads as well! While the one parent is being absent, the other parent is taking care of everything and that is amazing! That takes a lot of courage! We are all human and we need to have that courage within us! Don't be afraid to take risks and live your life!! 

Why? 

Why would those people come to my mind like that? The reason why those people come to mind is because when I think about people taking risks on a daily basis, I think about how much courage they have and for example, I think about skateboarders who do tricks or Kpop idols who go on stage and they might do something that might do something like a dance and they get hurt! That takes a lot of courage of a skateboarder doing a certain trick or a Kpop artist doing a dance that could get them hurt because they don't know if the floor is wet and they could get hurt! The 2nd reason why those people who have mental health come to mind is because they have to push what they are feeling and help others but at the end of the day, they are tired and they are not in the mood to deal with people! People who are dealing with mental health issues are courageous and I know that they can get through anything because I am trying to be courageous and to push through everyday! I might be smiling everyday but it is hard to pretend that everything is okay! The 3rd and final reason why single moms and dads come to mind is because they have to make a lot of decisions and sometimes they are hard decisions and sometimes, it is courageous decisions! Being a single parent isn't the easiest thing because I had to watch one of my parents do it and that was hard for me but that parent did an amazing job by raising me! We are all human and we need to be courageous and don't give up!

My advice! 

If I have any advice about being courageous, what would my advice be? My advice to my Blogger Dreamers about being courageous is don't be afraid to take risks and step out of your comfort zone! The more you step out of your comfort zone, the more better you will get better at that! Don't be afraid to do anything that you are not afraid to do anything! Don't be afraid to take risks that won't cause you any danger! Don't be afraid to go for your dreams and being courageous about because if you don't go for your dreams and be courageous about it, how you are going to complete those dreams? Don't let anything or anyone hold you back! I met my boyfriend for the 1st time and was I nervous? Yes but I had to be courageous and surprise him which was totally worth it! Have courage within yourself and don't be afraid to be courageous! Y'all can do it! I believe in y'all!

Why? 

Why would I give my Blogger Dreamers that advice? The reason why I would give my advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to be afraid to step out of their comfort zone and be courageous about it! I don't want them to scared or nervous! I want them to have bravery and remind themselves that they can do it and they don't need to be scared and drop out of whatever they are afraid of! Was I scared to meet my boyfriend? Yes but I went through it because I wanted to meet him so much! Have bravery in yourself and don't be scared! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! Don't quit and stand your ground! I believe in y'all and don't be scared!! 

In closing/ Tip of the the day! 

In closing, don't be afraid to go for your dreams and be courageous about it! Don't give up on something because you were scared of doing it! When I met my boyfriend, I am not going to afraid to admit it, but I was scared to meet him because I didn't know how I would act around him or if he would still love me but once I met him, all my of worries vanished and I had the courage to meet him and I am so glad that I did! Don't be afraid to take risks and do what you love! Don't let anyone stop you from doing what you love because if you love it and it makes you happy, keep doing it! God will lead you on the right path and he will lead you on the right path in life! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is don't stop being afraid of doing something that you like to do! Instead of being afraid, be brave and have courage! God made you brave and courageous for a reason! Don't let anyone or anything stop you! Y'all got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Remember that! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope and pray that y'all enjoyed today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is don't let anyone or anything stop you from chasing your dreams! Don't let your nervousness get the best of you! Show the world how brave you are and that you can do it! God made you the way you are! Don't be scared because if you show people how scare you are, then you are showing them that being scared is okay and it is not okay! Don't be scared of chasing your dreams! Y'all can do it! I believe in y'all and y'all can do it! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "standing alone is better than standing with people who don't value you". -Unknown. I couldn't agree with this quote anymore because I rather stand alone than people who don't care what my worth is or how valuable I am! I rather stand alone than with people who doesn't see how worthy I am! Standing alone is better than standing with other people! I am just saying! I love y'all and I pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday! Always remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be talking about women empowerment day! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌πŸ’•

Today's quote of the day! I love this quote a lot because I rather stand alone than with a bunch of people who don't value me as a person which hurts a lot! Standing by yourself is much better than being around a lot of fakes! 


"Courage is nothing 
more than taking one 
step more than you 
think you can".
-Holly Lisle. I love this quote a lot because don't force yourself to make more steps than you can! Don't overwhelm yourself with something that you think you can't do! Take small steps! 


"Courage Doesn't 
Mean You Don't 
Get Afraid.
Courage Means 
You Don't Let 
Fear Stop You".
-Unknown. I agree with this quote because you shouldn't have to be afraid of doing something that you love to do but instead of fear get the best of you, use that fear to be your motivation to get you through! 


"If you have the 
courage to start, 
you have the 
courage to 
succeed". 
-Mel Robbins. I lobe this quote a lot because in order to do something that you love to do, you have to have courage and always believe in yourself, no matter what! Have courage in yourself! 

I love y'all and I hope y'all don't let fear stop y'all from accomplishing y'all's dreams! I believe in y'all! πŸ’™πŸ’™



Monday, March 4, 2024

Blog: Talking about meeting my boyfriend for the first time! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 3/4/24!

                                       πŸ’™   Blog: Talking about meeting my boyfriend for the first time! Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Monday, 3/4/24! πŸ’œ 

Intro to my blog! 

 Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is bothering y'all, just know that everything will be okay and there is light at the end of the tunnel! Happy Monday or in other countries, happy Tuesday! I hope and pray that everyone had a good weekend and I pray that y'all stay safe as well! Before I get into today's blog episode and talk about this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last week's blog episodes! Last week on the makeup and fashion blog page, on Monday, I talked about my top 3 Korean male celebrities who I would love to do their makeup on. I don't see a problem with males wearing makeup because with male Kpop celebrities or pretty much any male Kpop celebrities, they would looked white washed on stage and that wouldn't look good at all! With J-Hope, I can see myself doing a light brown and dark brown combo with a red lip! I think he would look amazing and phenomenal! On Wednesday, I talked about my top 3 favorite outfits from this year so far! When I think about my favorite outfits from this year so far, the 1st outfit that comes to mind is the outfit that I wore on Sunday, February 25th which is my yellow dress with white polka dots, white shoes, and my blue jean vest with white lace detailing!! I thought that outfit was absolutely precious and it was so beautiful! I love it a lot and I would wear that outfit again! On Friday, I talked about my top 3 favorite jewelry! When I think about my favorite necklaces, bracelets, and earrings and with the necklace, what comes to mind is my gold "blessed" necklace! Every time I wear that necklace, I think about how God blessed me in so many ways! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "ilovemakeup.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Thank you all so much! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about meeting my boyfriend for the first time, the word "courage", and women's empowerment day!! Stay tuned for these blogs and let's our blogging caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about meeting my boyfriend for the first time! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I could describe the feeling that I met my boyfriend for the first time, how would I describe that feeling? Why would I describe that feeling the way that I did? How happy was I meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time? Why was I happy? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about meeting significant other for the first time, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because ever since my dad and my bonus mom set the date of us meeting, I been wanting to do a blog about for so long and I am so happy that today is the day that I will be talking about our meeting and I am so excited to share and talk about it! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I choose "Like Crazy" by Jimin the English version! I love how upbeat this song is and I love how powerful this song is! It is a very good song and I absolutely love it! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? I chose this song because I love the beat of the song and I love how Jimin did the song! He did very well with it!! 

The significance of Sunday, February 25th, 2024! Why is that day so significant? 

What is the significance of Sunday, February 25th, 2024? The significance of Sunday, February 25th is to surprise and to make my boyfriend's day which I succeeded well! That day is and always be a day where me and my boyfriend will never forget! To this day, we are still talking about! Sunday, February 25th will be day where I am not going to forget! It will hold a special memory forever and ever! I will always be a special day for us until we meet again! Why is that day so significant? The reason why it is so significant is because meeting someone for the 1st time can be a little nerve wracking at first but once y'all get comfortable with one another, then everything will okay! For me, I was a little nervous at first but once I got comfortable, I think I felt better! That day will always be special and I will never forget it!! 

Describe the feeling that I met my boyfriend! 

If I could describe the feeling that I met my boyfriend for the first time, how would I describe that feeling? The feeling that I met my boyfriend for the first time was a feeling that I have been waiting for a long time! I was nervous, happy, and excited! I felt so many emotions but the emotions that I was feeling the most was happy and excited! We always talked about meeting each other but when I got to surprise him, I felt so many emotions that day that I couldn't believe that I was going to meet him for the 1st time! I couldn't believe that I was going to hug him for the 1st time! Hugging him for the 1st time felt so unreal! I instantly felt safe in his arms and I never wanted to let go! Holding his hand felt unreal as well! I just felt safe around him!! 

Why? 

Why would I describe that feeling the way that I did? The reason why I describe that feeling the way that I did is because throughout our relationship, we did phone calls, facetimes, and text and us meeting for the 1st time was an accomplishment because we achieve that goal that we wanted to do for a long time and I am so happy that we did! Hugging him and holding his hand for the 1st time was unreal for me but I felt so safe with him! Usually for me, it takes me a little while to warm up to someone and getting comfortable with them but with my boyfriend, I instantly felt comfortable with him because I know him almost 4 years and we have been in a relationship a year and 4 months and I am so happy to have someone who I can instantly feel safe and comfortable around because that's important when it comes to a relationship! Having someone who makes you feel comfortable and happy is important! I will never forget the day I met my boyfriend and I don't think he will never forget either!

How happy? 

How happy was I meeting my boyfriend for 1st time? I was very happy to meet my boyfriend for the 1st time! When we saw each other for 1st time, it felt so unreal and I couldn't believe it was actually happening in that very moment! We always talked about meeting each other, but we could never make that moment happen until Sunday, February 25th and I am actually happy about us meeting for the 1st time! The real date was supposed to February 18th but my boyfriend fell sick, so we ended up pushing for Sunday, February 25th which I am so happy that we did! I was very happy about meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time and I would relive that moment again! It was such a good moment for the both of us and I was so happy to surprise him at his church and got to meet his church family and his pastor!! Everyone was so nice!! 

Why?

Why was I happy? The reason why I was happy is because when you are in a long distance relationship like me and my boyfriend are, it is hard to figure out when you and your partner could meet and where we could meet and stuff like that but when we did meet for the 1st time, I felt so happy that I could cry and I never thought we would be able to meet because of how busy my parents are and stuff like that but I am so happy that I got to meet him and surprise him for the 1st time! Surprising him was so worth it and I am so glad that I got to do that! That Sunday will always be my favorite, no matter what! Just seeing him made me so happy! I will never forget our 1st meeting!!

My advice!

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about meeting your significant other for the first time, what my advice be? If you are meeting your significant other for the 1st time, my advice is it is okay to be nervous! I was nervous meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time! It's okay to be nervous because everyone gets nervous every once in a while! I felt nervous for a little bit but then, I felt comfortable after that! Ladies - you don't have to wear makeup for your man! You don't have to impress him because he is already impress with you! Men - you don't have to look good for your lady! Just as long as your hair is brushed and you look nice, we are good! Don't fight your nerves! Just be yourself and be happy!! 

Why?

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because once I got around my boyfriend, I was nervous because it was nerve wracking meeting someone who you love for the 1st time but once I started being who I am, I was just making memories that I could remember forever! Being in his presence and being around him was the best thing for me! I loved how he made me laugh that day and I will never forget that day as long as I am alive! If any of my Blogger Dreamers are in a long distance relationship, it's okay! You will be able to see the person that you love soon! Don't give up hope! Ladies - you don't have to impress your man because if he doesn't like you the way you are, that's his loss, not yours! Men - if your lady doesn't like you the way you are, that's her loss, not yours! Always be yourself!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, Sunday, February 25th, 2024 will be a day to remember! A day where meeting my boyfriend for the 1st time will always be special! When we became friends almost 4 years ago, I never thought I would be in a relationship with him! I saw him as my best friend and nothing more but as time went on, my feelings for Aaron grew stronger and stronger each day and on November 1st, 2022, we became boyfriend and girlfriend and that's when we questioned in our head "when can we meet"? With our parents so busy, it was hard to figure out when we could meet but I am so happy that I could surprise him at his church! Would I relive that moment again? Of course I would! It was the key highlight of 2024 so far! Having someone who makes me feel safe and protected is the best thing ever! Meeting my boyfriend was the best day ever! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is find someone who will protect you and make you safe because having that person who does that is the best feeling in the world and never let go of that person! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Talking about this blog has always crossed my mind because I asked my boyfriend if I could do a blog about us if we ever met for the 1st time and he said that's fine! For me to do a blog like this makes me relive the moments and it also makes me miss him a lot more but I realized that we will see each other again! I am so happy that I got to share this blog and tell people about our 1st time meeting! That is special to me!! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Always find time for the things that make you feel happy to be alive". - via (Thinkpozitive.com). I absolutely love this quote a lot because when you find time to do something that  makes you happy and you feel alive, keep doing that thing because you are happy! Keep doing it! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog episode where I will be talking about the word "courage". I pray that everyone will have a good Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Peace! ☮✌πŸ’™πŸ’œ

Today's quote of the day! I absolutely love this quote because when you find time for things that make you feel happy to be alive, keeping doing that because you are happy!! 


The 1st set of pictures that came from my boyfriend's phone! I love these pictures so much!! 


The 2nd set of pictures from my phone! I also love these pictures as well!! These pictures turn out so good! I love them a lot!! 


This week's song of the week! I chose "Like Crazy" by Jimin from BTS, English version! I love the beat of this song and I think this song is really good!!