Blog: 3 ways to get through a bad day! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Friday, 10/27/23!! 

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything from personal things or problems that we face in this world such as bullying or even suicide!! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is bothering you, just know that you don't have to keep everything bottled up! My Blogger Dreamers, if y'all need someone to talk to, just know that I'm always here for you if y'all need anything! I care about my Blogger Dreamers and I will always care about y'all, no matter what!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode where I talk about what are chapters 1-3 of my book about? Chapter 1 is about my childhood slash when I was growing up! For me, I had one parent who was consistent in my life vs I had one parent who was in and out of my life which is hard for me to say! Chapter 2 is what happened in 2018? In 2018, I tried to commit suicide which hard for me to say because people might think "oh! She seems so happy" but the reality is I wasn't happy a lot! I was hurting a lot because of one parent being in and out my life which is hard for me! Chapter 3 is about life lessons that life taught me!! Life threw me a ton of curve balls but what life taught me for example, I am going to have real friends who do care about me and fake friends who are using me because I know that I can comfort them and I am good at that!! If y'all haven't read this blog episode but would love to check it out, the blog is call "What are chapters 1-3 of my book about"? Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about 3 ways to get through a bad day! In this blog, I will be talking about what are 3 ways to get through a bad day? Why are those ways to get through a bad day? When I am having a bad day, what are ways I turn a bad day to a good day? Why are those things that I turn my day into a good day? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers about having a bad day, what is my advice? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?? Now, let's get our blogging imagination brain on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How do I describe my bad day? Why would I describe my bad day like that? 

How would I describe my bad day? When I am having a bad day, I would describe it as horrible and terrible! Sometimes, things go south and when things go south for me, it can be a little challenging for me! I don't like having a bad days! I prefer a good day over a bad day but when you are having a bad day, you can instantly change it!! Don't let a bad day bring you down!! Why would I describe my bad day like that? The reason why I would describe my day like that is because I would have a horrible and terrible day and I would want that day to be over with because I don't want to talk to anyone or look at anything because my day would be ruined! Bad days are bad!!

3 ways to get through a bad day!! 

What are 3 ways to get through a bad day? There are many ways to get through a bad day! For example, the 1st way to get through a bad day is listening to music! There are some people that might do that and it helps them get through it! The 2nd way that people might through a bad is there are some people who might like to jog or even run! When people are having a bad day, some people might want to blow off some steam and so, they might want to go jog or even run! The 3rd and final way that people might do to get through a bad day is write in their journal! There might be some people out there who like to write down their feelings down and that's totally okay! If you are having a bad day, just write down your feelings! No one might not read it! Writing down how you are feeling could help a lot of people! I know it does for me sometimes!!! When I write down how I am feeling, it helps me so much and I feel better after it!! 

Why? 

Why are those ways to get through a bad day? The 1st reason why I chose listening to get through a bad day is because when you are going through a hard and bad day, there are some people who love listening to music and I am one of those people! When I listen to soft music or Christian music or even soft Kpop music, I feel so much better! Some people might be a little different and that's okay! The 2nd reason why I chose jog or even run as way to get through a bad day is because when you are angry at something or someone and something or someone made you mad at work, you want to blow off that steam and go for a jog or a run and it might help some people to get through it and that is totally okay! If you like to jog or run, that's great!! The 3rd and final reason why I chose to write in their journal to get through a bad day is because I know there are some people who love to write down how they are feeling and I used to be like that but not anymore! I need to get into it again! When you write down your feelings when you are having a bad day, you feel so much better and you feel like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders!! Writing down how you are feeling when you are having a bad day, can be helpful!!  

3 ways how I turn my bad day into a good day!! 

When I am having a bad, what are ways that I turn a bad day to a good day? The 1st way that I turn my bad day into a good day is I listen to music! When I listen to music whether it is soft Kpop or Kpop music or even Christian music. I am feeling much better and I can continue to have a better day!! The 2nd way that I turn my bad into a good day is when I go into my prayer room! When I am feeling overwhelmed and having a bad day, I go into my prayer room! To me, my prayer room is my safe place and even though it is not decorated, I can sit in there and calm myself down for a little while and it helps! The 3rd and final way that I turn my bad day into a good day is when I am talking to my boyfriend! When I talk to my boyfriend, I feel so much better and so happy! My boyfriend is my comfort place where I can be myself and he doesn't judge me which I love that so much!! 

Why? 

Why are those things that I turn my day into a good day? The 1st way that I turn my bad day into a good day is I listen to music and the reason why that is the 1st thing that I turn my day into a good day is because when I listen to music whether it is soft Kpop, Kpop in general, Christian music, or soft pop, I feel so much better! For me, it doesn't matter how I am feeling, listening to music helps me through any kind of day and I enjoy listening to music a lot! It helps me a lot!! The 2nd way that I turn my bad day into a good day is when I go into my prayer room slash prayer closet! When I go in there, I instantly feel so much better! For me, I love being in there because when I am in there, I think about how it is going to look when it is completely done when it is done decorated and painted and stuff like that! When I think about those things, I feel calm and happy because I finally have a place where I can read my bible and pray to God and I am happy about that!! The 3rd and final way that I turn my bad day into a good day is when I talk to my boyfriend and the reason why that is the 3rd thing that I turn my day into a good day is because when I talk to my boyfriend, I feel so much better! When I am having a bad day. he knows how to make me happy which I love that about him and I love how he can make me laugh! He is an amazing boyfriend who is a blessing from God! I'm blessed to have someone who can make me happy when I am having a bad day!! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers about having a bad day, what is my advice? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers about having a bad day, my advice is take a deep breath and breathe! You might be having a bad day, but you are not having a bad life! You can always start over the next day! Everything will be okay! Don't give up and quit because if you give up, you are throwing in the towel and you don't need to do that! Don't quit because you are having a bad day!! Bad days will always come and go but good days will always come on top! Always remember that!! 

Why would I give that advice?  

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because sometimes, a lot of people want to quit and give up because they are having a hard day but you can't give up so quickly! Life is hard but when you are having a bad day, you can't easily say "I'm done. I quit"! Just because you are having a bad day. it doesn't mean you are having a bad life! We will always have bad days but we need to do something that will turn that bad day into a good day and everything will be okay! Here lately, I have been having bad days and I am trying my hardest to make each day a good day because I hate the feeling of being sad but I know that everything will be okay!! I just have to give it to God and breathe!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In closing, life will give us bad days at times but we need to keep pushing through and keep going! Life might throw us some curve balls but we will get through them and if us having a bad day is one of those curve balls, we will get through it! I know that God will protect me from all danger! I know that God will give us bad days but at the end of the day, we can get through that bad day! We just need to give it to God and ask him how to help us! So, here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is don't give up because you are having a bad day! Yes, you are going to have a bad day every once in a while but you will get through it, no matter what!! My question of the day is what are 3 ways to get through a bad day? Why are those ways to get through a bad day for you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read and respond to everyone's comments! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoyed today's blog episode for today! We all will have bad days! Don't give up because it's hard! Just breathe and do what will help you get through a bad day! You are loved and do something that will keep your mind happy! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: In Romans 8:28, it says "And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose". I love this bible verse so much because when you love God, all things will work together good and for the better and when you share to people about how much you love God and how much he has done for you, that person can see how much God has done for you and when God is looking down on you, he is smiling and you are sharing his purpose!! Believe in God because God has done miracles in my life and I'm so blessed that he did!! I love y'all so much and I pray that everyone will have an amazing Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Stay safe and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my 1st blog page where I will be talking about analyzing the song "God Gave Me You" by Blake Shelton, blog by Brandee Marie Darden, me and Aaron's 1 year dating anniversary, and analyzing my poem "Becoming stronger"! Stay tuned! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! Such a good bible verse and I love it so much!! 

"Try not to be hard on
yourself when you have 
a bad day, don't judge 
every emotion. Take one 
moment at a time, you
will get through this". 
-Bliss. I love this quote so much because when you are having a bad day, you are going to judge yourself in whatever you do and you don't need to do that! Don't judge yourself because you will get through a bad day! Just take it a day at a time!!

"Staying positive doesn't mean 
you have to be happy all the time. 
It means that even on hard days 
you know that there are better ones 
coming". 
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you are having a hard day, there will be better days to come and it will get better! Don't give up!! 

"If you're having 
a bad day,
remember,
it's just a day,
not your entire life.
Tomorrow will 
be better".
-Unknown. I love this so much because if you are having a bad day, it's not just a day and you get to start new next time! It's not your entire life! You will have a better day tomorrow! Always remember that!! 

To end today's blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Rainy Days" by V and the reason why I chose this song for the week is because every time I listen to this song, it makes me want to listen to this song during a rainy days and it makes me think of my boyfriend!! I hope everyone will have a good weekend ahead! I love y'all! 

                                                Blog: What are chapters 1-3 of my book about? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 10/25/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that is personal or what happened in my life!! How are my Blogger Dreamers doing today? I hope and pray that y'all are doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be or whatever it is bothering my Blogger Dreamers, just know that I'm here for y'all, no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a blog recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about the word "Encouragement". We deserve to have people in our lives to encourage or motivate us in anyway that we can and I think it is good to encourage the people around you because if you tell that person that they can do it, it shows them that someone believes in them! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! It's called "Talking about the word "Encouragement" by Brandee Marie Darden!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about what are chapters 1-3 of my book about? In this blog episode, I will be talking about since writing a book, what are chapters 1-3 about? Why did I write about those things about in those chapters? If I could describe each chapter in my own words, what would my own words be? Why would I describe each chapter like that? If I have any advice about writing a book, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice about writing a book to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, let's get our blogging brain on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

How has my book journey so far? Why has it been like that so far? 

How has my book journey so far? If I could describe my book journey so far, I would describe it as a good and amazing journey so far! Working on my book has been a journey where I am enjoying every minute of it! I always wanted to write a book but I didn't have the courage to do so but I am so glad and blessed that I get to share most my life with the people around the world and praying whatever they have been through, they could try and relate to it! For me, I want to people to relate to what I have been through and if they went through it, I am praying what I said in my book can help them the best way I can! For me, working on my book has been therapeutic and I am so glad that I am giving an opportunity and working on a book! Why has it been like that so far? The reason it has been good and amazing journey so far because when I work on my book, it makes me think that one day I can become the world's best selling author and one day, I can meet millions of people who might read my book and potentially my blogs as well!! I pray that it could happen one day!!! 

My chapters 1-3 about!!  

Since writing a book, what are chapters 1-3 about? The 1st chapter of my book is about my childhood and when I was growing up! When I was growing up, I remember being a shy little girl and to this day, I am still shy! I will always remain shy until I open up to people! The 2nd chapter is about what happened in 2018? What happened in 2018 was a lot of things going on around that time but the thing that sticks out to me in 2018 was when I tried to commit suicide and at that time, I was dealing with a lot of issues but I'm fine now!! The 3rd and final chapter is about life lessons that life taught me!! Life has taught me so many lessons and if I can share my life lessons in my book, I feel like that chapter could help someone!!

Why? 

Why did I write about those things about those chapters? The reason why I wrote the 1st chapter as my childhood slash when I was growing up because I want people know what kind of childhood and how I was growing up! When I was a little kid, I remember throwing my dad's shoes breaking stuff! I don't know why I did that but I know that I did that!!! The 2nd reason why I wrote the 2nd chapter as what happened in 2018 is because in 2018, I tried to commit suicide and I am so glad I didn't succeed because if I did, I wouldn't be here today and talking about it! Mental health is something that doesn't need to be joked about and it is something that needs to be taking serious! If you know someone who is going through mental health issues or even yourself, remind people that they are never alone and that there is people who is always there for them, no matter what! No one should ever have to feel alone and I'm here for anyone who needs support! The 3rd and final reason why I wrote the 3rd chapter as life lessons that life taught me is because life can teach you a serious of lessons and that's what happened to me! My life has taught me so many things for example, how the world can be so mean and the people in this world can fill your head with negative thoughts!! Don't let this world fill your head with negative thoughts because you are going to have that negative mindset if you do!! 

Describe each chapter in my own words!! 

If I could describe each chapter in my own words, what would my own words be? If I could describe my 1st chapter, it would not easy!! Growing up, I always had one parent in my life being consistent and always being there for me vs the other parent was always in and out of my life that was very hard for me! When I was a teenager, I would go to one parent house and that parent was happy but when I go to that parent house, that parent wasn't happy! My teenage years wasn't the easiest but I got through them!! If I could describe the 2nd chapter, it would be hard! In 2018, I just moved into a new place that I wasn't very familiar and not only that, I was already dealing with my own issues in my head at the time! It was hard for me and I am not proud that I tried to commit suicide but I am blessed that I am here today and talking about it! If I could describe my 3rd and final chapter, it would be a teaching moment! Life is all about teaching you and throwing you curve balls but when you are going through those curve balls, you get through them each and passing day and for me, I am blessed that I can take each life lesson and make it into a teaching moment for myself!! 

Why? 

Why would I describe each chapter like that? The reason why I would describe the 1st chapter not easy because I had to watch one parent raise me while the other parent was being absent in my life and that was hard for me! When I was a teenager, I had to go back and fourth and that was hard on me because while the other parent was spending time with me, the other parent wouldn't and it is hard! The 2nd reason why I would describe the 2nd chapter hard because suicide is something that is hard to deal with and for me, I have been dealing with suicidal thoughts for a long time but I am so glad that I got myself out of that dark hole that I was in and I'm proud of myself for talking about it because that's not easy at all!! The 3rd and final reason why I would describe the 3rd chapter as a teaching moment is because for me, life is about teaching and life taught me a lot of things and I'm so blessed that those teaching moments taught me and made me the woman that I am today and I am so proud of myself for learning how to stand up for myself instead of people constantly bringing me down!! I see so much growth in me and I am so happy for how far I have come in my life!! 

My advice! 

If I have any advice about writing a book, what would my advice be? If I have any advice for my Blogger Dreamers who want to write a book, here is my advice: My advice is come up with a book title and think about what you want it to be about! Think about how many chapters you want and who you want your audience to me! If you pick your audience to be a teenager or a grown adult, write your book based on a teenager or grown adult! Writing a book is not easy but if you have that dream of writing your own book, you go for it! Don't let anyone stop you! You go and reach your dreams of being an well known author!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice about writing a book to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because if you have a certain audience that you want to target, then write your book based on a teenager or adult or even a kid's interest! You want to gain that attention based on someone or a certain age! There are some people who might like books that are fiction or even non fiction! If you have that dream of writing a book, you go for it! Don't let anyone stop you from writing unto your heart's content! Do it because that is your dream and you want to become that well known author or do it because you love writing! Don't let anyone stop you from writing!! You do you and be proud of it!! 

In closing/ Question of the day?? 

In closing, this whole writing a book process has been an amazing but hard journey but a wonderful journey! I am up to 20 chapters and where I from started from a year ago to now and that I am so proud and impressed with myself!! I love working on my book so much! Working on this book has been very therapeutic to me and when I am working on it, I think about if anyone will like it or if anyone would relate to the book or to the issues that I have been through! My goal with this book is if can relate to it and I just pray that the people around the world can relate to it! Here is my question of the day?? My question of the day is if you could title your first book, what would the title of your book be? Why would you title your book that? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to respond to everyone's comments!! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog and y'all got the insight scoop of chapters 1-3 of my book! How exciting! I can't wait to share my book with y'all in the future! I'm looking forward to share my work with y'all and I pray that y'all can relate to it! If y'all have a dream of working on a book, just go for it! I believe in y'all! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Luke 22:42, it says "God's will Not mine". I absolutely love this bible verse so much because if God gave you something on your heart or if he tells you "go write a book" or "go do something that you love", then let God lead you! It's his will that he is leading you that way! I hope and pray that everyone will have a good Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about 3 ways to get through a bad day! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💚

Today's bible verse of the day! Love this bible verse so much!! 

The first chapter of my book!! 

The second chapter of my book!! 

The third chapter of my book!! Life can always teach you lessons!! 

                                               💜   Talking about the word "Encouragement" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 10/23/23!! 💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! How are y'all doing today? I hope and pray that everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever is bothering my Blogger Dreamers, just know that you are loved and I care about my Blogger Dreamers more than anything this world!! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, here is a recap of last weeks blogs episodes! On Monday, I talked about V's "Layover" photos 1!! When I saw these outfits, I thought he looked amazing and so handsome! I don't have a favorite outfit because I love all of those outfits!! On Wednesday, I talked about V's "Layover" photos 2!! When I saw these outfits, I was getting decades and vibes in my head! For example, on one of the outfits, I was getting 1990s nerd who knows how to ride a motorcycle and he could potentially steal your girl!! On Friday, I talked about V's 'Layover' photo 3! When I saw him wearing a low cut leopard shirt with a black leather spiked jacket with black leather pants and black shoes, it was giving me rockstar vibes which I live for! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out at "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! For this week's blogs, I will be talking about the word "encouragement", what are chapters 1-3 of my book about, and 3 ways to get through a bad day!! Now, let's get our blogging thinking caps on and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song for the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "Encouragement". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the word "encouragement", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? When is someone having a bad day or close to giving up, what is my encouragement to them? Why would I give that type of encouragement? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about encouragement, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Why did I choose to talk about today's blog episode? The reason why I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because we need more encouragers in this world! There is always people who bring others down and instead of bringing others down, let's encourage one another and hype people up! To people who are in relationships, let's hype your girlfriend or boyfriend instead of bringing them down and not throwing stuff in their face or saying "you can do better than that". Let's encourage one another! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Rainy Days" by V! When I listen to this song, I think about listening to it on a rainy day and chilling! Why did I choose this song for the week? The reason why I chose this song for the week is because it is very soft and I love the song a lot! Such a good song!! 

What does encouragement mean to me? Why does encouragement mean to me? 

What does encouragement mean to me? When I think about the meaning of encouragement, the meaning of encouragement is hyping someone up or sending them good vibes!! When you hype your boyfriend, girlfriend, or even your best friend, you want to let them know that you are supporting them in anyway that you can and not only that, you want to let that person know that they can do it and they shouldn't give up!!! Why does encouragement mean to me? The reason why encouragement means to me is because I love to encourage people the best way that I know how to and I like to remind people that they can do it and they should never give up on their dreams that they are working hard towards or working hard on something like a project or even book! Never give up!! 

What comes to mind? 

When I think about the word "encouragement", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "encouragement", I think about how I can others without discouraging others! When I see others get discouraged or they are close to giving up, I want them to know that they are doing an amazing job and not only that, I want to encourage people who need the encouragement just in case they are having a bad day and they need some cheering up! I believe in encouragement and I think encouraging people can help a lot and I think we need to motivate people, no matter what!! 

Why??

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because I like to encourage or inspire others everyday or I try my best to motivate others to my best ability! When I see someone wanting to quit, I remind them "you can do it! I believe in you", just stuff like that and I think it is important to uplift others when they need the motivation to get through anything that they are going through! In life, people don't know what you might be going through and when they something uplifting, it could help another person and for me, I want to motivate or inspire others to never give up on their dreams! Always work hard towards your goals!!! 

My encouragement! 

When is someone having a bad day or close to giving up, what is my encouragement to them? If I had to give any encouragement to people who might be having a bad day, my encouragement is it is just because it is a bad day, it is not a bad life! Don't let someone or something bother you and make you mad! Don't let it bother you and make you more mad than you already are! Calm down and take a breather!! My encouragement for the ones who are close to giving up, don't! It's not worth giving up or even quitting! Keep pushing through and keep fighting! You got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! Don't give up!! 

Why? 

Why would I give that type of encouragement? The reason why I would give that type of encouragement for someone who is having a bad day or close to giving up, is because I want to motivate or encourage others because you might having a bad day, it is not a bad life! Always take a deep breath and breathe! It's not worth giving up on something that you have been working hard on for so long! Because someone is judging you for something that you are working hard on, that doesn't mean you have to give it up! You show that person that you are going to be successful and that you can do it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Never give up trying! Use the haters words as encouragement because if you use those words encouragement, they will angry to see you succeeding in life!! Don't get mad and don't give up!! 

My advice!! 

If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about encouragement, what would my advice be? If I have any advice to give to my Blogger Dreamers about encouragement, my advice is always encourage or motivate the people around you! Give people around the motivation to keep going or not to give up! If you encourage others, you are helping those people and encouraging others around you! Be an encourager, not a discourager because if you be a discourager, you are putting that person down instead lifting them up and that person doesn't need someone who will put them down! Always lift people who you come in contact with!! 

Why?  

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I think it is important be an inspiration to others and help others to believe in themselves, no matter what! If people don't believe in themselves, you can be their light into believing in themselves and it is important to help people believe in themselves! I believe in giving encouraging words and if your encouraging words help someone, then you are doing an amazing job and keep encouraging others! Don't give up on encouraging others because you are doing an amazing job and you should be proud of yourself!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, I believe we should encourage others who come in our lives and help them the best way that you can! If someone is getting bullied, encouraging them to stand up for themselves because getting bullied is not good at all and let them know that getting bullied is not good! If someone is struggling, don't lecture them but encourage them that everything will be okay! Yes, life is hard but always encourage others! We need more people to encourage others instead of bringing others down and judging them! The only person that I know who can judge me is God and that's it! Don't be that "Debbie Downer" because if you be a "Debbie Downer", then you are discouraging others not to chase their dreams or you are filling others stuff that they don't want to hear!! Don't be that type of a person to do that! For my tip of the day, it is don't be "Debbie Downer", instead be an encouragement to others and motivate others to never give up and keep trying! I love y'all so much!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! The moral of this blog is be an encouragement to others because if you encourage others, then you are helping them and we need more people like that and there isn't a lot of people like that! There are people who are always bringing others down and I hate that! Be an encourager, not a discourager because if you be a discourager, then you are not helping that person at all but instead, you are bringing that person down!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes something like this: in Job 34:32, it says "Lord Teach Me What I Cannot See". I absolutely love this bible verse so much because God can teach you what you are missing in your life! God can lead you the way and help you with whatever you need help with! Let God help you!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart and I pray that everyone will or had a good day! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will be talking about what are chapters 1-3 of my book about? So, stay tuned for that! Until next time, dream big! Don't give up on your dreams and always stay safe! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ✌💜

Today's bible verse of the day! I love this bible verse so much! Such a good bible verse!!

"Correction does 
much, but 
encouragement 
does more".
-Johann Wolfgang von Goethe. I love this quote a lot because yes, you can correct people time after time but when you give someone that encouragement, it helps them more than just correction!! 

"We should 
seize every
opportunity to give
encouragement. 
Encouragement 
is oxygen
to the soul".
-George M. Adams. I find this quote relatable because when someone gives you an encouragement, it should make you feel happy to know that someone does care about you and it will remind you that you should never give up, no matter what!! 

"There Is Nothing 
Better Than 
The Encouragement 
Of A Good Friend".
-Katherine Butler Hathaway!! I love this quote so much because when you have a great friend who will encourage you, it helps to know that feeling of someone who does believe in you and they know that you can do it!! 

To end this blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "Rainy Days" by V! I love this song so much! It reminds me when it is a rainy day, I want to listen to this song and it also reminds me of when I am waiting for my boyfriend, I think about him!!! He always come to mind when I listen to this song!! 

                                            Blog: Analyzing my poem "Don't let the voices knock you down" by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 10/6/23!! 

Intro to my blog!!  

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever what's going in your life, just know that y'all are loved and I care about y'all more than anything in this world! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked my favorite things about fall! I absolutely love fall a lot! I love wearing leggings and I love plaid! For me, I can wear plaid all day and it won't bother me at all! I love watching the leaves change colors and the leaves falling as well! Fall will always be my favorite season! I don't care what anyone says but I love fall and I will always love fall, no matter what! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, please go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! The blog is called "My favorite things about fall". Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about analyzing my poem "Don't let the voices knock you down" by: Brandee Marie Darden! In this blog episode, what is this poem all about? Why did I write this poem all about? What kind of voices have knocked me down but have gotten up from? Why did those voices didn't keep me down? If I have any advice about handling the voices in your head, what would my advice be? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's jump into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem!! What is the moral of this poem? Why is that the moral of my poem? 

On Tuesday, August 15th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Don't let the voices knock you down" and here is how it went: "Don't let the voices knock you down" by Brandee Marie Darden! 

"Don't let the

voices knock you

down because 

if you listen to 

those voices,

those voices are 

going to bring

you down! If 

someone tells you 

that "you're not

good enough", that's 

going to bring 

you down and 

no one doesn't 

need that! Don't 

let the voices 

knock you down! 

You are much 

stronger than 

that"!

-Love,

Brandee Marie 

Darden. Written on Tuesday, 8/15/23!! What is the moral of this poem? The moral of this poem is don't listen to the voices in your head unless the voices are good voices! When people tell you something negative, that is going to bring you down and it is going to hurt you! Don't listen to that person and don't let what they said repeat in your head over and over again! Why is that the moral of my poem? The reason why that is the moral of my poem is because when you listen to what that person say to you, it can tear you down so much! When you let that person tear you down, you are letting them bring you down through the mud! Don't let someone do that because if you let what they said bother you and hurt you, then they are hurting you! Don't let them do that! I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to get hurt!! Please, stand strong against the voices in your head!! 

My poem about! 

What is this poem all about? This poem is all the voices are trying to knock you down! When the voices in your head replays the things that people say whether it is good or bad, sometimes it breaks you or sometimes, it can heal your heart! It depends what people say!! People can be negative and it is hard on your mental health! People can be so mean and honestly, you don't need the negative vibes filled up in your head! With the voices in your head, it can tear you down and you don't need people bringing you down! Don't listen to the voices in your head!! Don't let those voices bring you down!! 

Why? 

Why did I write this poem all about? The reason why this poem is all about the voices are trying to knock you down is because when you are trying to sleep at night or you are just out of your zone, all you can think about is what people said about you whether it is negative or positive! People can fill your head with negative things and you are trying to block it, but you just can't! Don't let people put negative thoughts in your mind because if you do, it is going to drain you and you are going to feel like giving up! Please, don't give up and don't listen to the voices your head! It's not worth listening to those voices in your head! You are much stronger than that and you can get through it! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers!!

The voices that have knocked me down, but have gotten up from!! 

What kind of voices have knocked me down but have gotten up from? The 1st voice that has knocked me down but I got up from was telling myself that I wasn't good enough! I had moments where I was feeling like I wasn't good enough but I told myself "I'm good enough and I know I am". The 2nd voice that has knocked me down but I got up from was when someone said "my blogs depressing". When that person told me that my blogs where "depressing", it struck a nerve in me because I care about my blogs a lot and it made me upset but I was like, no one isn't going to knock me down by saying "your blogs are depressing". The 3rd and final voice that has knocked me down but I got up from was someone telling me what to do and how or what I should write about what kind of blogs I should do? Yes, I had someone try to tell what kind of blogs I should write and that brought me down a lot! When you knock down my creative writing, it fills my head with negative thoughts! I feel in my head "no one isn't going to like my blogs or anything like that but I'm not going to let it bother me anymore and I am not going to let it fill my head with negative thoughts! People can hate on my writing, but I'm going to write however I want to but correctly!! 

Why? 

Why did those voices didn't keep me down? The 1st reason why the 1st voice didn't keep me down is because I know that I am good enough but for me, it is hard to believe it but I need to believe it in my heart and in my brain as well!! I don't need to listen to the people who are negative and listen to the people who are positive!! The 2nd reason why the 2nd voice didn't keep me down is because I try not to make my blogs "depressing" but when I have been through some harsh things in my life, I try to make my blogs as educational or telling people about what I have been through in my life! No one knows what type of pain I have been through until you read my blogs and for me, I love expressing myself through my blogs!! The 3rd and final reason why the 3rd voice didn't keep me down is because if you try to tell me what I should or should not write, it is going to fill my head with negative thoughts and that's going to be hard on me! When it comes to writing, I take it to heart! I love writing more than anything in this world and when you tell me what to do with my writing, it brings me down really quick and not only that, it fills my head with negative thoughts but I am not going to let those negative thoughts bother me anymore!! If you don't like my writing, then don't read my writing!! It's that simple!!

My advice! 

If I have any advice about handling the voices in your head, what would my advice be? If I have any advice about handling the voices in your head, here is my advice: My advice is don't listen to those voices that bring you down! You are much stronger than that! If someone tells you that "You're not good enough", don't listen to that! I know that you are much stronger than that and you are definitely good enough! Don't listen to those negative voices in your head and don't let anyone bring you down! You are much better than that! You are loved and I care about y'all more than anything in this world! Don't listen to those voices in your head! I love y'all!

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give this advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you listen to those voices in your head, you are listening to everyone who is breaking you down and tearing you down! You are listening to the voices in your head and they are reminding you "you're not good enough" or "you will never be good enough" and every one of my Blogger Dreamers is good enough in my eyes and don't listen to the people who are filling your head with negative thoughts because y'all are much better than that and listen to the positive thoughts instead!! Those can put you at ease!!! Positive over negative!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, people are going to be rude and fill your head with negative thoughts! When you listen to those thoughts, they are going to tear you down and bring you down! Negative thoughts can bring people down easily but you need to remain strong and learn how to stand your ground! Don't let the negative thoughts bring you down because if you let those thoughts get to you, you are going to dwell on them and you don't need to do that!! You don't need people bring you down! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is focus on the positive thoughts because if you focus on the positive rather on the negative, it is going to show people around you that you are so strong and that you can get through anything that you can put your mind to!! Don't listen to the negative! Listen to the positive!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! Don't let the negative thoughts tear you down! Don't let people tear you down! Not only people can tear you down, but also people who are saying the negative stuff can also bring you down as well! You are much stronger than that and you are worthy of love! Don't listen to those voices in your head! You are amazing just the way you are!!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "You're not scared of things you can't see. But once they become visible, your fear suddenly becomes real". -Dong-Kyung, Park Bo-Young. Doom At Your Service. I love this quote so much because you can't see things that can scare us but when we see things that might scare us, that's when our fear gets the best of us and that is not good at all! Don't let that fear get to you! I love y'all so much! Happy Friday or in other countries Happy Saturday! Have a safe weekend and always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my 1st blogging page! I love y'all! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! You can't see anything that isn't in front of us but when it comes more visible, that is when you should be scare!! 

My poem that I wrote on Tuesday, 8-15-23 about "Don't let the voices knock you down". Don't let the voices in your head ever knock you down!! 

"The voice inside your 
head isn't always 
telling you the truth". I find this quote very relatable because when someone tells that "you are not good enough", they are lying! When that voice says the same thing, that voice is not telling the truth! Don't listen to the voices in your head!! It's not worth it!!

"Strength is how you shut down
the voice in your head that
says "I can't".
-Emma XU!! I love this quote so much because when your mind tells you "you can't" or anyone, then you say "watch me". You are proving people wrong that you can do it! Don't let anyone tell you differently!! 

To end this blog episode, here is this week's song of the week! I chose "You win my love" by Shania Twain! The reason why I chose this song for the week is because when I listen to this song, I immediately think about my boyfriend because he won my love! I hope everyone will have a great weekend! Stay safe! I love y'all!! Peace! 

                                                🍂 Blog: My favorite things about fall!! By: Brandee Marie Darden! Date: Wednesday, 10/4/23!! 🍂 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new blog episode for today! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that you are never alone and I'm always here for you, no matter what!! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about dealing with someone who has mental health issues!! When you love someone who has mental health issues, it's hard for you to see them depressed or beating themselves in their head and telling themselves that they are "good enough" and that's hard!! I feel bad for my boyfriend because he doesn't know if he is going to get the good side of me or the sad me and that's hard for him but he is patient with me and I'm blessed that he is patient with me! If y'all haven't read this blog episode but would love to read it, please check it out whenever y'all can! The blog episode is called "Dealing with someone who has mental health issues". Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about my favorite things about fall!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I had to pick 3 things that I love about fall, what would those 3 things be? Why did I pick those 3 things as my favorite? If I could describe fall in 3 words, what would those words be? Why would I describe fall like that? Why would I describe fall like that? Would I consider fall as my favorite season? Yes or no? Why or why not would I considered fall as my favorite season or not? Now, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about fall! What makes me love fall? Why do I love fall? 

What makes me love fall? I think what makes me love fall is the color changing of the leaves and wearing plaid! I can wear plaid all day and I wouldn't be bothered with it! I love when the leaves change colors! It is so gorgeous and so beautiful! I love the color changes a lot! It is so gorgeous in my eyes!! I love the colors! To me, the colors are appealing and I can look at them all day!! Why do I love fall? The reason why I love fall is because to me, fall colors are the prettiest colors that I have ever seen! I love how pretty the colors are and I enjoy looking at the colors! I even love wearing the colors as well! I love the greens and the golden yellow! It is so beautiful and so gorgeous!! I love it a lot!!

3 favorite things about fall!! 

If I had to pick 3 things that I love about fall, what would those 3 things be? The 1st thing that I love about fall is the changing of the leaves color! When I see the leaves a different color, I think the leaves are so pretty! I love when the leaves are a change of color!! The 2nd thing that I love about fall is the falling of the leaves! When I see the leaves are falling, I think to myself "it's fall"!! I absolutely love fall so much! The 3rd and final thing that I love about fall is plaid or flannel! For me, plaid would always be my favorite pattern to wear! When I think about that pattern, I immediately think about my grandpa, Flex! I remember doing the winter time when it got cold, he would wear this red and black plaid jacket and he is the reason why I love plaid a lot! When I see plaid stuff at Walmart, I get so excited and I just love plaid so much!! I even have plaid pumpkins on my blogging desk!!! That is how much I love plaid!! 

Why? 

Why did I pick those 3 things as my favorite about fall? The reason why I picked the changing of the leaves color as my 1st favorite is because when I see the colors change, I get all excited and happy for some new colors and it is so gorgeous!! I love when I see pictures of the leaves changing colors!! The 2nd reason why I picked the leaving falling as my 2nd favorite is because I love when the old leaves fall, the new leaves come in and it makes me so excited!! It makes me so excited and makes me want make a pile of leaves and jump in them and act like a big kid!! The final reason why I picked plaid as my 3rd favorite is because I love wearing plaid! I will always love wearing plaid! For me, plaid is something that I remember my grandpa, Flex wearing plaid during the winter time but when I see plaid coming out for fall, I get so happy! I love plaid so much and I will always love plaid, no matter what! To me, if I could pick any pattern to wear all the time, it would had to be plaid! I love plaid and I will always wear plaid!! 

Describe fall in 3 words!!! 

If I could describe fall in 3 words, what would those words be? If I could describe fall in 3 words, the 1st word is peaceful! When I think about fall, I think about the peacefulness and how peaceful it can be! The 2nd word for fall is calmness! Watching the leaves falling and changing colors, it can bring calmness to me or to anyone and I just love it a lot! The 3rd and final word that I would describe fall is plaid! I love plaid! I could wear plaid all day and it wouldn't bother me much at all! Plaid for me is something that I could wear all day long and I would still love it! I love plaid and I would always love plaid, no matter what!! 

Why? 

Why would I describe fall like that? The reason why I would describe fall with the 1st word is because when it is at night, it is so peaceful watching the night sky and looking up at the moon! It is such good feeling at night when the stars are out and looks so beautiful!! The 2nd reason why I would describe fall with the 2nd word is because when you are sitting outside on fall night, you feel that wind blowing and you feel the crisp air and you don't want to go inside because it feels so nice and you just want to stay outside as long as you want to because it is so peaceful and you love the peacefulness!!! One night, I might go and sit outside and just read my bible!! I love when it feels good at night!! The 3rd and final reason why I would describe fall with the 3rd word is because when I think about fall, I immediately think about plaid and the flannel! I love wearing a plaid shirt with black leggings! I think it makes a cute outfit and I love wearing it a lot! I can't wait until it gets cool and I can start wearing leggings! I'm so excited!! I am also looking forward to wearing sweaters as well and plaid!!! 

Fall my favorite season? Yes or no? 

Would I consider fall as my favorite season? Yes or no? To answer that question, yes I would considered fall as my favorite season! I absolutely love fall and would always love fall, no matter what! I love clothing for fall and I love how my gold dress with polka dots gives off fall vibes! It is so cute and so gorgeous! Sometimes, I would sit outside and just enjoy the wind blowing and feel how nice it is on a nice autumn night! For me, fall would always be my favorite, no matter what! To me, I love fall and I love the stores come out with cute decorations for fall and I love it so much and I also love how they come out with cute clothes as well! Fall is and always will be my favorite! I don't care what anyone says!! 

Why or why not? 

Why or why not would I consider fall as my favorite season or not? The reason why I would consider fall as my favorite season is because I love when the wind is blowing! When I feel that air blowing and my hair is blowing with it, I can feel autumn in my bones and I love it! Fall to me is amazing and I love seeing the nice decorations, clothing, jewelry, and hair accessories as well! I think it is so cute and so precious! Fall is just amazing and fall will be in my number 1 spot of my favorite season and I don't care what anyone says!! Fall to me is nice and I love fall!! 

In closing/ Question of the day??

In closing, fall will always be my favorite season! Don't get me wrong but I love spring, summer, and winter but fall to me will always be superior, no matter what! For me, when I see the fall or Halloween decorations, it makes me so excited! I remember when I saw the plaid pumpkins, I thought to myself "I had to get these" and sure enough, I did and I don't regret it one bit at all! Fall is a nice season and I enjoy the nice air and the nice clothing that clothing stores come out with! When I see plaid, I immediately want it so much!! I love plaid more than anything in this world and I enjoy wearing plaid a lot! Here is my question of the day: To my Blogger Dreamers, what is y'all's favorite season? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to hear and respond to y'all's comments! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all just reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I know that I did! I love fall so much! I love the leaves falling and the color changing and seeing plaid clothing! It is so nice to see anything fall related! I love fall and I will always love fall, no matter what! For today's quote of the day, it goes something like this: "Living is like facing new roads every single day. Whether you want or not, you face the reality which come every day.." -Doctor Teacher Kim! I find this quote very relatable because you don't know what kind of a day you are going to face each day! When you wake up each and everyday, you face a new reality each day and you have to face it each day! No matter what you are going through life, you can face it head on! I hope and pray that everyone will have a good day or had a good day! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday and I will see y'all on a new blog episode on Friday! Until next time, "Dream Big! Don't ever give up on your dreams". I love y'all! Peace!! ☮✌💙

Today's quote of the day! Such a good quote! I find it so relatable and no matter what we face on our day to day lives, we can always get through it, no matter what!! 

Leaves changing colors!! Love this so much! Just looking at this picture just makes me feel at peace!! 

Leaves falling makes me want to make a pile and jump in them!! It sounds so fun!! 

This picture makes want to get plaid jackets, shirts, and even blankets if they have any!! I love anything plaid and I would wear anything plaid because I love plaid so much!!