💜 Blog: My main reasons why I want to inspire others? By: Brandee Marie Darden! Wednesday, 8/30/23! 💜 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode!! I'm so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever it is going on in your life, just know that you're not alone in this world and whatever you are going through, I'm here for y'all, no matter what because I care and I will always care about y'all no matter what! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about the words "blending in". When I think about those words, I think about being a copycat or you want to be like everyone else in society and the truth is you should never be like someone else because you are amazing as you are and you should always be who you are, no matter what! Instead of blending in, you should stand out! It's okay to stand out than to blend in! If y'all haven't read this blog episode and would love to check it out, the blog is called "Talking about the words 'blending in". I love y'all and I hope y'all can check it out! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? In this blog episode, I will be talking about if I had to pick my top 3 main reasons on why I want to inspire others, what are those main reasons? Why are those my main reasons to inspire my Blogger Dreamers around the world? Who are my top 3 people who I look up for inspiration? Why are those people my inspiration? What are ways to inspire others? Why are those ways to inspire others? If I could give out any advice about inspiration, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice? Now, without any further ado, let's get our blogging brain going and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

The word "inspiration". When I think about the word "inspiration", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind? 

When I think about the word "inspiration", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "inspiration", a lot comes to my mind! When I think about the word "inspiration", I think about the people who have inspired me to never give up and keep fighting no matter what! The 2nd and final thing that comes to mind is when people tell me that I'm inspiration! When people tell me that, I feel honored! It makes me happy!! Why does it come to mind? The reason why the 1st thing comes to mind is because I had people in my life that had told me to "never give up! Keep fighting! You got this" and every time I want to give up, it reminded me that I need to keep going and to never quit!! The 2nd and final reason why the 2nd thing comes to mind is because when people tell me "you're an inspiration" or "you have inspired me", it makes me feel happy and it makes me so happy that I can inspire people in whatever I do!! I will always continue to inspire others, no matter what!! 

My top 3 main reasons why I want to inspire others!! 

If I had to pick my top 3 main reasons one why I want to inspire others, what are those main reasons? The 1st main reason why I want to inspire others is I want to connect with people and tell them that everything will be okay! When I talk about a certain subject, I want to connect with it and if they do, I'm happy! I never want my Blogger Dreamers to ever feel like they are alone!! The 2nd reason why I want to inspire others is to tell my life stories! When I am telling people my life story through my blogs, I want people to understand where I am coming from and understand if I can get through it, then they can get through it as well! The 3rd and final reason why I want to inspire others is to help others! If I can help one person or even a bunch of people, then I am doing my job right! I don't like seeing people struggle and if I can help people through my blogs, I'm happy because it makes me happy!! 

Why? 

Why are those my main reasons to inspire my Blogger Dreamers around the world? The 1st reason why I want to connect with people and tell them that everything will be okay is because if someone can connect with you and they can connect with how you are feeling or how you want through it, then it feels good to know that you have someone on your side who can relate to you! With me, I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that whatever you are going through, they are never alone and I want them to know that they are loved and I'm here for them, no matter what! The 2nd reason why I want to tell my Blogger Dreamers my life stories is because if I tell my life story, maybe one of my Blogger Dreamers can relate to it in a way! If someone can relate to my life story or life stories, then I am doing a good job! The 3rd and final reason why I want to inspire others by helping them is because I never want anyone to feel they are not alone or they are not heard because I know what that feels like! I know what it is like to be ignored and people not hearing you! Just in case no one has told you this today, I'm so proud of you! Keep pushing you because you got this and I believe in you, no matter what! 

3 people who inspire me! 

Who are my top 3 people who I look up for inspiration? The 1st person who I look up to is no other than my favorite Kpop band in the entire world is BTS! Yes! When I am hard on myself, BTS inspires me to never give up and to always keep trying no matter what! If they can't give up, then I can't give up either! The 2nd person who I look up to for inspiration is my wonderful boyfriend, Aaron! My boyfriend inspires me everyday! He reminds no matter how hard life is or how hard can get sometimes, God is on my side no matter what! He is such an inspiration to me!! The 3rd and final reason who I look up to is my fandom, my Blogger Dreamers! Every time I work on a blog, I think about my you guys! Without any of y'all, I don't know where I would be! Some of y'all have been there for me in the beginning but some of y'all just started following me or reading my blogs and that's okay because y'all make everything amazing to me and I can't thank you enough for inspiring me and being an amazing fandom that I could ever ask for!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! 

Why inspire me? 

Why are those people my inspiration? The 1st person who inspires me is BTS and the reason why they inspire me is because they remind not to give up and to always keep trying, no matter what! They remind if I keep trying, I will never quit! The 2nd person who inspires me is my boyfriend, Aaron is and the reason why he inspires me is because I will have days where I am extremely hard on myself but he reminds that he will never leave me and he will continue to support me, no matter what! He reminds me that I'm loved and he will always care about me, no matter what! No matter how hard we live, he still continues to make me happy and I'm so blessed that God gave me this man!! Thank you for inspiring me, my love! The 3rd and final person who inspires me is my Blogger Dreamers and the reason why they inspire me is because without them, I don't know where I would be without them! I don't know where I would be without their support or just them being there for me through my hard times! I truly love y'all so much! Thank you!

Ways to inspire others! 

What are ways to inspire others? The 1st way to inspire others is to spread affirmation or positive words! If you see someone struggling, inspire them to never give up and to always keep going no matter what! The 2nd way to inspire others is help them whatever they are going through! If you see someone struggling, help them with anything they need help with! If they need any advice, you can try to give them advice! It might inspire them! The 3rd and final way to inspire others is being you! If they see you being yourself, it can inspire them to be themselves! Always be yourself, no matter what! It's okay to be quirky and different! I am different and I'm proud of being different!!

Why? 

Why are those ways to inspire others? The 1st way to inspire others is to spread affirmation or positive words and the reason why that is a way to inspire others is because your words can inspire a person to push through their day and to never give up and quit! Your words can help inspire someone! The 2nd way to inspire others is help them whatever they are going through and the reason why it is the 2nd way to inspire others is because by you being there for someone can inspire them a lot! You just supporting them and cheering them on can help them and that is what people need these days! The 3rd and final way to inspire others is being you and the reason why it is the 3rd way to inspire others is because if you be yourself, it can help others be themselves as well and you should always be yourself and be proud of who you are because just by being yourself is amazing within itself and you are doing amazing!! 

My advice/ Why? 

If I could give out any advice about inspiration, what would my advice be? My advice about inspiration is inspire others just by being the person that you are! By you being you can be an inspiration within itself and that can be amazing! I love being who I am as a person and if I can show people that I am just being who I am, then I'm doing my job correctly and I'm proud of myself! I want to continue to inspire others and I will continue to do that! Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know if you can be yourself and inspire others, then you are doing a good job and you should be proud of yourself! Never give up and never stop trying to inspire others!! 

In closing/ Question of the day? 

In closing, I never thought in my entire lifetime, I would hear people telling me that "I'm an inspiration". When people tell me that, it makes me feel good because I just want to help people with my stories or help to connect with them! BTS has inspired me in so many ways where I really can't tell y'all! My boyfriend has been my biggest support system when I felt like I had no one and I am so blessed to have someone like him! Everyday, I think about my Blogger Dreamers because I want them to know that they are never alone and they are loved! Everyone here at the Blogger Dreamers is loved and I will continue to inspire y'all no matter what and I want to say a huge thank you for inspiring me! Y'all are such a huge inspiration to me and thank you so much! Always continue to inspire others the way you want to inspire others because your inspiration can go a long way! So, my question for my Blogger Dreamers is if y'all had to pick 3 people who inspires you, who are they? Why do they inspire you? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read y'all's comments!! Please! Thank you so much! I love y'all!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode because I know that I did! Waking up everyday and knowing that I can inspire someone makes me blessed! I am just a 25 year old woman who loves to make people smile and help them out when they need help! I will continue to inspire others no matter what and continue to help anyone that I can, no matter what! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Isaiah 45:22, it says "Turn to me and be saved, all you ends of the earth; for I am God, and there is no other". I love this bible verse a lot because God saved me! I felt lost and I felt alone! I was always there for people and helping them with their problems but God was burden me with "please, believe in me and give up what you are going through and believe in my son" and that's what happened! Please, believe in God and let him lead you the way!! I love y'all from the bottom of my heart! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be doing a happy birthday blog for Jeon Jungkook of BTS! I love y'all and have a happy Wednesday or in other countries, a happy Thursday and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's bible verse of the day!! Love this bible verse so much! Such a good bible verse!! 

"People inspire 
you, or they drain you.
Pick them wisely".
-Hans F. Hanson. I love this quote so much because because people can inspire you or they drain you! People can drain you by doing something that can be mean! Pick wisely!! 

"Fill your life with 
adventures, not 
things. Have stories 
to tell, not stuff
to show". -Unknown. I love this quote so much because when you tell people your life stories, you want to tell them about it, not show them! Tell them about your stories, not show them!! 

"Helping one 
person might not
change the whole 
world, but it could
change the 
world for
one person".
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable because if you can change the world for one person, then you are doing something right for that person! Whatever you do for that person, then you are doing something right!! 

People who inspire me on a daily basis!! BTS, my amazing boyfriend, and my Blogger Dreamers!! I feel blessed to have these three people as my inspiration!! 

                                               Blog topic: Talking about the words "blending in", by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Monday, 8/28/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode for today! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are never alone and I'm here for y'all no matter what! Happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing weekend because I know that I did!! Before I get into today's blog episode and this week's blog episodes, let's do a little recap of last week's blog episodes!! On Monday, I talked about my top 3 female Korean group or soloist whose makeup that I would love to do!! I would love to work with Jisoo from BlackPink! I love her so much and I feel like she would be fun to work with! I would also love to work with Jessi and IU! I could see myself do a colorful look on Jisoo and Jessi and a soft glam look on IU because I feel like IU will look really good with a soft glam look but in my head as well, I can also see her with a bright color makeup look but either way, all of them would look good with any makeup look!! On Wednesday, I talked about Jungkook's 7 concept photos, campaign edition! Honestly, when I saw these photos and the outfits, I wanted to freak out and scream because he looked so good and so handsome!! He looked so good!! On Friday, I talked about my 3 favorite dresses! The dresses that I picked out are amazing and the pink dress with the ruffles was giving me 1950s housewife getting ready for Easter Sunday!! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can check them out on "ilovemakeup17.blogspot.com". Please, go check them out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, for this week's blogs, I will be talking about the words "blending in", my main reasons why I want to inspire others, and a happy birthday blog to Jungkook from BTS! Now, without any further ado, let's get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about today's blog episode! Why I chose to talk about today's blog episode? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be talking about the words "blending in". In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about the words "blending in", what comes to mind? Why does it come to mind like that? Do I like blending in or standing out in the crowd? Why do I like standing out instead of blending in? What in my advice to all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in? Why would I give out that advice? Why did I chose to talk about today's blog episode? I chose to talk about today's blog episode is because I don't believe in "blending in". I always believed in standing out because I feel like everyone should be different than the same!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship!! I absolutely love this song a lot and I think about how much God has done in my life and he has done it over and over again! He has blessed me with an amazing boyfriend who is so caring and I'm so blessed! Why did I choose this song as my song of the week? I chose that song as the song for the week is because God has blessed me so many times and he chose to do it over and over again and I am so blessed and I can't thank God for blessing me over and over again!! 

Talking about the words "blending in" vs "standing out". What is the difference between "blending in" vs "standing out"? Why is there a difference the two? 

What is the difference between "blending in" vs "standing out"? The difference between "blending in" and "standing out" is with blending in, you want to blend in with the crowd and you want to wear the same thing as everyone else vs with standing out, you want to wear something completely different and you want to have your own style and that's okay! It's okay to have different styles than everyone else! That is what makes you unique and different! For me, I love dressing up and wearing a dress with my white shoes! That makes me different and I am okay with that! Why is there a difference the two? The reason why there is a difference between the two is because when you are "blending in" with everyone else, you are acting like everyone else and you are not acting like yourself but if you "stand out" from everyone else, you are being different from everyone else and that is okay! It is okay to stand out from everyone else! That makes you who you are! I don't like blending in with other people! I like standing out and that makes me proud of who I am!!

What comes to mind when I think about "blending in"? 

When I think about the words "blending in", what comes to mind? When I think about the words "blending in", I think about being like everyone else in the world or a copycat! You want to be like everyone else to the point where you are copying them! You should never be like everyone else! You are your own person and God made you the way you are! You are an unique person and you should never copy anyone else! You are an amazing person and don't pretend to be anyone else that you're not because what's the point of doing that? There isn't a point of doing that!

Why? 

Why does it come to mind like that? The reason why it came to mind like that is because God made you the way you are! You don't need to blend in with anyone else! You don't have to be the person next to you or you don't have to wear the same clothes as that person! Every person is different and that's okay! You don't have to blend in or make yourself "fit in" into society because you're different! We are made differently and I love being different because no one isn't like me and I'm okay with that! A lot of girls don't like headbands but I do! A lot of girls don't like makeup but I do! I don't mind being different because I know God made me like this! I don't like parties or drinking but I know people who like doing that but that's fine! That's me! I am just a girl who loves Christian music, Kpop, blogging, writing, and reading her bible! I'm okay with being who I am!! I love being who I am!! 

Blending in or standing out?  

Do I like blending in or standing out in the crowd? With me, I love standing out! I am that type of that girl who likes to wear bright colors and keep to herself! Don't like bugging people unless it is my boyfriend but other than that, I like to keep myself and keep myself busy with other things! I'm not your average 25 year old who doesn't go party or even drink alcohol! I'm just a 25 year who loves to read her bible and work on blog stuff and work on her book!! I'm different and I'm okay with that!! I don't care if I blend in or stand out because either way , I'm happy the way I am and I love being who I am!! I don't care about blending in!! I rather stand out! That's who I am!! 

Why? 

Why do I like to standing out instead of blending in? The reason why I like standing out instead of blending in is because for me, blending in is boring! You are trying to act like everyone else and that's very boring but for me, I don't like acting like everyone else! My relaxing night at home is doing some skincare, read my bible, and listening to Christian or Kpop music and also talking to my boyfriend on Facetime on Mondays during the day and Fridays at night! That's how I like it and I am okay being different from other people because I know God made me the way I am and I love being me!! I'm okay with being different and if people don't like me, oh well! You don't have to like me because I love me!!

My advice! 

What is my advice to all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in? To all of my Blogger Dreamers who want to stand out instead of blending in, here is my advice to you: Be proud of who you are! Be proud of what you like or what kind of music you like to listen to because it's okay to be different! You don't have to listen to the same music as everyone else! You can be who you want to be because God made you the way you are and that's okay! Just be you and don't be afraid of being you! Instead of being afraid who you want to be, be proud of who you want to be!! You are AMAZING and don't forget that!! 

Why? 

Why would I give out that advice? The reason why I would give out that advice is because I think everyone is afraid of being who they want to be and people might make fun of them but if they make fun of you, let them! You be you and be proud of who you are! Don't let people stop you from being you! You are unique and there is one you and there will always be on you! No one isn't going to be you and that's fine! You be you and that's it! Don't forget that! Always love yourself for who you are and don't forget that either! Don't stop being who you are!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, blending in is so boring! Standing out is more fun then blending in! I love standing out because I can be proud of who I am without being afraid of who I am! I love the listening to the music that I love to listen to! I love Kpop music and Christian music! I don't care about listening to either of them! I don't care about who likes me for me or not! If people can't accept me the way I am, then I don't need your presence in my life! I am not going to "blend in". I am alright! Thank you though! I am who I am and I am proud of it! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is be happy to be you because there is one you and that's you! Don't blend in because someone told you to! Don't listen to anyone who tells you "you should blend in" because you don't need to blend in!! Just be you and that's it!! I love y'all so much! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! Don't listen to anyone who is trying to tell you that "you should blend in". Don't worry about blending in because you shouldn't have to blend in! It's okay to be different and you should be proud of who you are! Don't let other people tell you otherwise!! For today's bible verse of the day, it goes like this: In Ezekiel 34:16, it says "The stray I will bring back, the injured I will bandage, and the weak I will strengthen". I absolutely love this bible verse a lot because when you are weak, you will get better by the power of God! God can heal you and get you back to having strength! God is powerful and he will help you get better! Just believe in him!! I love y'all and I hope everyone will have a happy Monday or in other countries, a happy Tuesday and I will see y'all on Wednesday where I will I will talk about my main reasons why I want to inspire others? I love y'all and remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams". Please, take care of yourself and I love y'all! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace!! ☮✌💚

Today's bible verse of the day! This is such a good bible verse and God will strengthen the weak!! 

"Deep in my heart,
I know I am a loner.
I have tried to blend in with the world
and be sociable, but the more people
I meet the more disappointed I am,
so I've learned to enjoy myself, my
family and few friends".
-Steven Aitchison! I find this so relatable I have tried to blend in with everyone but I couldn't but I came to accept that I am not like everyone else! I try to be social but every time I try to talk to new people, I get nervous! I just enjoy my family who care about me, a few friends that I do have, and my amazing boyfriend who I adore so much!! 

My tiktok about "blending in". Don't blend in because you feel like you should blend in with others, but stand out because God made you the way you are!! 

"You Are Designed By
God Not To Blend In, 
But To Stand Out".
-Myles Munroe. I love this quote so much because God made you the way you should be and you shouldn't have to blend in but you should stand out instead because God would want you to do that!! 

For this week's song of the week, I chose the song "Do It Again" by Elevation Worship because God continues to move mountains and he continues to bless me in my life over and over again and I can't thank God enough for all the blessings in my life!!