Analyzing my poem "What kills you makes you stronger", by Brandee Marie Darden!! Friday, 7/28/23

                                                   Analyzing my poem "What kills you makes you stronger", by: Brandee Marie Darden!! Date of blog episode: Friday, 7/28/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to my mind from makeup to fashion to even personal things like bullying and suicide! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that I love and care about each of my Blogger Dreamers so much! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about the word "stupid". I don't think it is nice to call anyone stupid because when you call someone "stupid", you are basically telling them that they are not "smart" and that's not right at all! Everyone is smart in their own ways and don't let anyone call you stupid! If y'all would love to check it out, it is called  "talking about the word stupid". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "What kills you makes you stronger" by me aka Brandee Marie Darden!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I think about what killed me but made me stronger, what things help me got stronger? Why did those things make me stronger? What is the meaning behind my poem? Why is there meaning behind my poem? What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling and who might need help? Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers?  Now, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What was my feelings when I was writing this? Why did I have those feelings when I was writing this poem? 

On Saturday, March 19th, 2022, I wrote a poem called "What kills you makes you stronger" and here is how my poem goes: "What kills you makes you stronger" by Brandee D. 

"What kills you makes 

you stronger whether it is a 

heartbreak or a breakup or even

losing a loved one! Somethings might 

make us weak but we can get

through it no matter what! We are 

strong! There is somethings that 

might make us weak but we got 

this! We are fighters no matter what! 

Even though there is certain things 

that kill us but because we got through it, we are way stronger 

than before"!

-Love,

 Brandee Darden.

Written on Saturday, March 19th, 2022!! What was my feelings when I was writing this? My feelings when I was writing this poem was I was getting flashbacks when I was writing this poem and not only that, I was feeling sad a little bit because I was remembering what hurt me but it made me stronger than I was before and I am proud of myself for coming this far! Why did I have those feelings when I was writing this poem? The reason why I had those feelings is because there are a lot things that made me stronger than I was  before and I am glad that I got over those things!! I am proud of myself and I will continue to make myself proud, no matter what!! 

Things that help me! 

When I think about what killed me but made me stronger, what things help me got stronger? The 1st thing that killed me was not having a lot of people by my side but what made me stronger was when people would constantly being there for me and I am very blessed to have people who will support me and be there for me! The 2nd thing that killed me was constantly being hard on myself but what made stronger is having an amazing boyfriend who is constantly supporting me and giving me encouragement!  There would be times where I would be so hard on myself and that was hard for me and every time I would be hard on myself, my boyfriend would be encouraging me and telling me nice things! The 3rd thing that killed me was when people would show me their true colors and the thing that helped me  or made me strong was seeing who that person actually was and why I don't need that person in my life anymore! When that person showed me their true colors, it hurt me but it made me realized that I don't need them in my life and I am glad that I don't need that person anymore!

Why? 

Why did those things make me stronger? The 1st thing that killed me was not having a lot of people by my side but what helped made me stronger was when people would constantly being there for me and the reason why it made me stronger is because when you have people constantly supporting you and being there for you, it makes you happy and it will help in the long run and that has helped me through a lot! The 2nd thing that killed me was constantly being hard on myself but what made stronger is having an amazing boyfriend who is constantly supporting me and giving me encouragement and the reason why it made me stronger is because when I have days where I am just being hard on myself and I can't do it, my boyfriend who constantly support me and give me the best encouragement ever and I am very blessed to have him in my life! The 3rd and final thing that killed me was when people would show me their true colors and the thing that helped me or made me strong was seeing who that person actually was and why I don't need that person in my life anymore and the reason why it made me strong is because when people show you their true colors, it made you realize that you don't need them anymore and it shows you that they never cared about you in the first place and that makes you want them out of your life! Don't trust people who show their true colors because they aren't trust worthy and you can't rely on them anymore!!

Meaning of my poem! 

What is the meaning behind my poem? The meaning behind my poem is no matter if you are going through a heartbreak or losing a love one or dealing with life problems, it might hurt or kill us, but at the end of the day, we are warriors and we can get through anything that God gives us! God will give us problems but if you believe in God that can help you, pray to God that he can help you through the storm because God can help you! We are warriors and whatever we going through, we got this! Believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Yes, life isn't easy but at the end of the day, we are going to get through it no matter what and we can't give up! We need to keep pushing through, no matter what and never quit because we can't quit!! 

Why? 

Why is there meaning behind my poem? The reason why there is meaning behind my poem is because in life, we go through hardships or we might lose a love one, but when you lose that love one, that love one wouldn't want to you to be sad! That love one would want you to be happy and live a happy life! As for a heartbreak, don't waste your tears on a guy or a girl because your tears aren't worth being wasted on them and you don't need to be sad on that person! Life is hard for me and for everyone, but we don't need to give up because we need to keep pushing through no matter what! Don't quit and keep pushing through no matter what because you are loved and everyone cares about you!! 

My advice!

What is my advice to my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling and who might need help? To my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling and who might need help, my advice is don't be afraid to ask for help! I am always here supporting you and cheering you on! I will always pray for you because God can hear you cries when you are crying! Please, don't be afraid of help! I want to help you the best way that I can because I want to support you and be your biggest fan! Please, whatever you do, don't give up and keep pushing through! I know that you can do it! You are loved and I'm here for anyone who needs support! 

Why? 

Why would I give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give that advice to my Blogger Dreamers is because I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to struggle through a lot and I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to give up and quit! Don't be afraid to ask for help or I can even pray for you because God can hear my prayers! Please, don't quit! Your love one who passed on wouldn't want you to give up! Please, don't give up and on the Blogger Dreamers, you are loved and I am here for any of my Blogger Dreamers if y'all need anything because I care about each of y'all so much and I know that I will always be here for each of my Blogger Dreamers, no matter what! I love y'all so much!!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, there can be a lot of things that can kill us but at the end of the day, we are going to get stronger if we just keep pushing forward through life! Life isn't the easiest thing in the world, but that doesn't mean that we have to give up! In your life, you might have people who might bully you or they might be mean to you, but at the end of the day, you don't need those type of people to push you down and make your life a living heck! Don't let those people bring you down because you don't need that in your life! You do what makes you happy and not worry about others and what they think about you!! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day no matter how hard life can get, God has you and will support you through anything! Give your problems to God and don't give up! Keep pushing through, no matter what! You're loved and I'm here for anyone! I love y'all! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and I just want to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode of today! The moral of this blog episode is when you feel like giving up, don't because my Blogger Dreamers are much stronger than that! I love y'all so much because I want my Blogger Dreamers to know that there is someone in their corner and I will gladly be in your corner! Don't let anyone tear you down! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "If you wake up feeling fragile, remember that God is not, and then trust him to be everything you need today". -John Piper! I find this quote so relatable because when you have been through a lot, God has seen it! If you believe in God, let him help you today because you might be going through a hard time today and God will be there for you today! I pray that everyone will have a good Friday or even a good Saturday! Please, have a good weekend and I will see y'all next week on my makeup and fashion blog page where I will be talking about my favorite outfits overall, favorite outfit and makeup combo, and J-Hope's hair throughout the years! Stay tuned! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Let God lead you today! Believe in him because he is an amazing God who will protect you from all evil!! 

My poem I wrote about "What kills you makes you stronger" that I wrote on Saturday, March 19th, 2022! A year go, I remember writing this poem and I remembered a lot of things broke my heart but I kept going and I am so proud of myself!! 

"Don't forget 
while you are
busy doubting 
yourself.
Someone else 
is admiring 
your
strength".
-Kristen. I love this quote so much when you are busy doubting yourself and telling yourself that you "can't do it", someone is admiring you for strength and for how far you have come in your life! Please, don't give up! You're loved and I love you!! 

"Your mind has to be
stronger than your 
feelings or you will 
lose every time".
-Via (Dark Secrets). I love this quote so much because if you put your feelings before your mind, you are going to have negative thought every single time and you are going to lose! Don't let yourself lose but it's not worth it! 

To end the blog episode, for this week's song of the week, I chose "I Can't Stop Me" by Twice! This song is very powerful and no one can't stop me from what I love to do or anything like because if you stop me, I will never give up trying!! 

Talking about the word "stupid". Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden!!

                                                 Talking about the word "stupid". Blog by: Brandee Marie Darden! Date of the blog: Wednesday, July 26th, 2023! 

Intro to my blog! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about anything that comes to mind! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that y'all are loved and I am here for y'all if y'all need anything!! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday!! Before I get into today's blog episode, let's do a recap of Monday's blog episode! On Monday, I talked about my poem "Pain that you are feeling". It doesn't matter what kind of pain that you are feeling, you are feeling some type of way which is sad! No one should ever feel sad or angry or even have pain! If you are feeling that type of way, just know that you are loved and I care about y'all so much! If y'all haven't read that blog and would love to check it out, it is called Analyzing my poem "Pain that you are feeling". Please, go check it out whenever y'all can! Please! Thank you so much!! Now, for today's blog episode, I will be talking about the word "stupid". In this blog, I will be talking about when I think about the word "stupid", what comes to mind? Why does that thing come to mind? How does it make me feel when someone calls me or anyone who I love "stupid"? Why does it make me feel a certain way? What is my advices to my Blogger Dreamers who have been called "stupid" or they feel like they are "stupid"? Why would I give those  advices to my Blogger Dreamers? Now, without any further ado, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall! 

My feelings towards the word "stupid". What is my feelings towards the word "stupid"? Why do I have feelings towards that word? 

My feelings towards the word "stupid" is I don't like the word and I will never like that word! When I hear that word, it gets me so many mixed emotions! I don't care if you call something "stupid" but when you call a person that whether it is playing or not, it still gets me upset and mad! I feel you should never call another human being stupid because that's not right at all! Why do I have feelings towards that word? The reason why I have feelings towards that word is because I feel like everyone is smart in their own way! I feel like no one isn't stupid! I think we all learn differently and that's okay because sometimes, we figure it out on our own and that's okay!! 

The word "stupid"! When I think about the word "stupid", what comes to mind?  Why does that thing come to mind? 

When I think about the word "stupid", what comes to mind? When I think about the word "stupid", I think about people who makes awful mistakes that are stupid! I don't associate "stupid" with not being smart! No one isn't stupid! We are smart in our ways and I don't believe that no one isn't stupid! When people make stupid mistakes, they come to regret those stupid mistakes and I know that I have made mistakes that weren't smart at all and I came to terms with that! Don't make stupid mistakes because it's not worth it all!! Why does that thing come to mind? The reason why that thing came into my mind is because I don't believe that people aren't stupid! I will never believe that people are stupid because people are smart in their own ways and I know that I am smart in my ways! People can make mistakes and we need to learn from those mistakes!!

My feelings when people call me or anyone that I love "stupid"!! 

How does it make me feel when someone calls me or anyone who I love "stupid"? When someone calls me "stupid", I'm not going to lie; it hurts me a lot but I stand up for myself because I know that I'm smart in my own ways! When you call someone that I love "stupid", I am going to stand up for them because I know I have people in my family or friends who are smart! I had this one friend who I thought I could trust but I obviously and she called me and my boyfriend stupid and after she brought my boyfriend into it, I blocked her after that! No one calls my boyfriend stupid because he is not stupid at all! Never call people that I love "stupid" whether it is family, friends, or my significant because if you do, big consequences will come your way and you will make a stupid mistake! Just saying! 

Why?  

Why does it make me feel a certain way? The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because you can hurt me all you want and I am going to stand up for myself because I am a big girl but when you bring my family, friends, or even my boyfriend into a conversation that is between you and I and you call any of them "stupid", chances are I am going to stand up for the person that I am love and I am going to make sure that you feel the anger coming out of me! I will make sure you are blocked from my life and I will make sure you will regret that decision forever!! I don't like when people say "you're stupid". It makes me so mad because everyone is smart in their own ways but if you call something "stupid", that's okay but don't ever call someone "stupid" because it is wrong and disrespectful! I will make sure to protect the people who I love! Just saying!

My advices! 

What is my advices to my Blogger Dreamers who have been called "stupid" or they feel like they are "stupid"? To my Blogger Dreamers who have been called "stupid", my advice is you're not stupid! You will never be stupid in my eyes! It might take a while for you to understand certain things and that's okay! You're not stupid! My advice for my Blogger Dreamers who think they are "stupid" is no one isn't stupid! Don't ever call yourself "stupid" because you're not stupid! You are smart and don't y'all ever forget that! Don't let the people in this world bring you down and call you "stupid" because you are smart! Ignore those people and focus on you because you are smart and you are loved! I love each of my Blogger Dreamers so much and all of all are smart! Don't let anyone tell y'all other wise!

Why-advices? 

Why would I give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those advices to my Blogger Dreamers is because I know that my Blogger Dreamers are smart in their own ways! Don't let anyone tell y'all other wise! No one should never feel stupid because no one is not stupid! Y'all are smart in y'all's own ways and don't let anyone tear you down because you deserve people around you who see how smart you are and see that you are trying in whatever you are trying! Y'all might not get it the first time or the second time, but you will get it and y'all can't give up! Don't quit trying! Y'all got this! I believe in my Blogger Dreamers! Always keep trying, no matter what! I love y'all so much!

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, no one and I mean no one here at the Blogger Dreamers is not stupid! Y'all are loved and everyone is smart in their own way! It might take you so many tries to do something, but you got this! Don't ever think you're stupid because no one is not stupid! Please, don't think you're mindless because you're not mindless! God gave you a brain for a reason and God gave you talents for a reason as well! Show off your talents and be proud of what you can do! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day is everyone here is smart in their own ways! You might make a foolish mistakes, but no one here isn't ignorant! Everyone here at the Blogger Dreamers is smart! Don't let anyone tell you that you aren't bright because you are bright and a clever person! I love y'all so much and don't give up! Y'all got this!! 

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here telling y'all that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope everyone learned that y'all aren't stupid! Don't ever call yourself that because that's not what y'all are! I am going to give y'all a challenge for today: My challenge is don't call yourself stupid! If you do call yourself stupid, write down why you called yourself "stupid". Everyone is clever and don't y'all ever forget that! My quote of the day is "Don't Let What's Wrong With You Define You". -Toby Mac! I absolutely love this quote so much is because whatever what is going on with you in your mind or what kind of mental health problems that you have, that doesn't define who you are as a person! You are amazing and don't ever forget that! I hope everyone will have an amazing day or I hope everyone had an amazing day today! Please, take care of yourself and remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on my next blog where I will be talking about my poem "what kills you makes you stronger", stay tuned for that! I love y'all and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Such an amazing quote and I love it a lot!! Don't let your past problems or even your mental health problems define who you are as a person because you are amazing!

"Only Fools 
Call Others 
Ignorant or 
Stupid, Due 
To Their Own 
Lack Of 
Understanding".
-Tim Burnell. I don't think you should call people any of these names because it might take a while for people to understand and it is rude to call anyone these names! Don't call people these names!!

"When somebody calls you
stupid, if your face turns
red from anger, it means 
that a part of you believes
in this. When you call a 
wise man stupid, his colour 
never changes".
-Mehmet Murat Ildan. I like this quote because if someone calls you stupid, you would be angry and if someone calls a wise man stupid, his color doesn't change because they are probably used to it and he had to prove it to that person! 

"You even called me stupid in your
verse, and I'm almost agreeing,
for where stupidity is involved, 
you are quite an expert, friend".
-Franz Grillparzer. I like this quote a lot because you are agreeing with that person that you are stupid and to me, no one isn't stupid! 

My tiktok that I did yesterday about "Calling others stupid". Never call someone "stupid" because they get it and you don't!! Don't give up!! 

                                        💔  Analyzing my poem "Pain  that you are feeling" by: Brandee Marie Darden! Monday, 7/24/23! 💔 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's already a new blog episode again? I thought we had one last week? haha! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back! So happy to have y'all back on a new blog episode! Happy Monday or in other countries, Happy Tuesday! I hope everyone had an amazing and safe weekend! I know that I had a fun weekend!!! Before I get into this week's blog episodes, let's do a recap of last week's blog episodes! On Monday, I talked about making this world a better place! I feel like this world is not safe or anything like that! Not only that, people don't know who God or why Jesus died on the cross? I know why? He did it because he wanted to and he did it because of our sins! On Wednesday, I talked about how to motivate others? We should always motivate others to do their best! I feel like you can motivate others to do their best because that's all they can do! On Friday, I talked about ways to motivate yourself! I feel like we should motivate ourselves, no matter what! Instead filling our heads with negative words, we should fill our heads with positive words! If y'all haven't read these blogs and would love to check them out, you can read them at "brandeemariedarden.blogspot.com!! Please, go read them! You won't regret it! For this week's blog episodes, I will be talking about two of my poems which are "Pain that you are feeling" and "What kills you makes you stronger" and I will always be talking about the word "Stupid". Stay tuned for new blogs!!! Now, let's get into our blog imagination and get started with a new blog episode! Shall we? We shall! 

Today's blog episode! What is the moral of this blog? Why is that the moral of the blog? What is this week's song of the week? Why did I choose this week's song of the week? 

For today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Pain that you are feeling" by Brandee Marie Darden aka me!! In this blog episode, I will be talking about when I was writing this poem, what type of feelings was I feeling at the moment? Why was I feeling those feelings at the time when I was writing this poem? When people are in pain, how does that make feel? Why does that make me feel a certain way? If I have any comforting words for my Blogger Dreamers, what would my comforting words be? Why would I give those comforting words to my Blogger Dreamers? What is the moral of this blog? Well, the moral of this blog is when you are going through pain, you feel like you are alone in this world but in reality, you are not alone in this battle that you are going through! You are stronger than you think you are! People think you are doing okay but in reality, you're not and that's okay! Reach out to people and let you know that you're not doing okay! Why is that the moral of the blog? The reason why that is the moral of the blog is because when we go through pain, everyone thinks we are fine but deep down, we are hurting and we are to the brink of giving up because we are hurting so bad! We can't give up because we have so many people who loves us and cares about us so much! It might not feeling like it, but at the end of the day, everything will be okay!! What is this week's song of the week? For this week's song of the week, I chose "I can't stop me" by Twice! This song is such a powerful song and I love the title of the song! Why did I choose this week's song of the week? I chose this song because it reminds me no matter what I do in life, you can't stop me from what I love to do and you can't put me down!! 

Talking about my poem! What is the meaning behind this poem? Why is there meaning behind this poem? 

On May 11th of this year, I wrote a poem called "The pain that you are feeling". It goes something like this: "The pain that you are feeling" by Brandee Marie Darden. The pain that you are feeling 

can be losing 

a love one, a 

breakup, or 

not having 

your significant 

other with

you and that's 

hard! When 

you have been 

crying and 

your heart 

is hurting! The

pain that you 

are feeling is

very hurtful

but you need 

to be strong! 

You got this"! 

-Love, 

Brandee Marie Darden! What is the meaning of this poem? The meaning of this poem is when you are going through pain of losing a love one or through a breakup, it can cause you so much pain and with breakups, not only it can cause you so much pain, but it can cause you so much anger because you are thinking to yourself "what did I do to deserve this" but you didn't do anything! Losing a love one isn't easy either! You are sad and so much pain that you would do anything to get them back and it's not easy! When you don't have your significant other by you, it's hard! You would do anything to have them beside you! I would do anything to have my boyfriend beside me! Why is meaning behind this poem? The reason why there is meaning behind this poem is because pain is an awful thing to ever go through and I feel like no one should ever have to go through pain! I am here for anyone who is feeling like they are alone because you should never feel like you are alone! Don't go through things alone!

My feelings when I was writing this poem! 

When I was writing this poem, what type of feelings was I feeling at the time? When I was writing this poem, the type of feelings that I was at the time were sadness, anger, and hurting! With sadness, I know how it feels when you lose a love one! I have lost so many people who I love and it caused me with so much sadness! With anger, I have been broken up so many times and it's hard! When you get broken up with, you want to be sad but you also want to be angry because that person caused you so much pain and they don't deserve your tears at all! With hurting, you are hurting so much but at the same time, you trying to stay strong for the people around you but it's hard! Hurting is horrible and no one should never be hurting and I feel for any of my Blogger Dreamers who are hurting and I am sending y'all a virtual hug!! 🤗

Why was I feeling those feelings at the time when I was writing this poem?

The reason why I was feeling sadness is because when I lost my grandma, Phyllis or my grandpa, Flex, I was really sad because it hurt me to lose them both but for me, I realized that they are no longer in pain anymore and I don't them to know that I am sad anymore and I just wish I could hug them once more but I know that they are proud of me for how much I have changed my life! The second reason why I was feeling anger is because when someone breaks up with you, you want to be sad but you realized you don't have time to be sad but you are angry because they have caused you so much hurt and you're angry because you have done so much for that person to the point and then, they don't want to be with you anymore which is horrible but you realized, you don't need them anymore and you're fine with that! The third and final reason why I was feeling hurt is because I had people cause me so much hurt that I don't want to trust them anymore! When people caused you so much hurt and to the point that you can't trust them, that hurts but people need to realize that you are hurting and you need to realize that you don't need them anymore! You will be happy without them and you don't really that toxic in your life! You can be happier without those people than those people!! Don't be around people who don't care about you!!

When people are in pain! 

When people are in pain, how does that make me feel? When I see people in pain, it hurts me a lot! I care about people and I want what is best for them but when I see people hurting, it hurts me a lot! I would do anything to comfort them the best way that I can and I will drop anything to help a person who is going through a lot! When I see people in discomfort, I want to comfort them with a hug and tell them that everything will be okay because I know that everything is going to be okay! Give it God and God will be there for you, no matter what! He will comfort you the best way that you can be comforted!

Why does that make feel a certain way? 

The reason why it makes me a certain way is because it breaks my heart when I see people crying because it makes me want to cry as well and I don't like crying! I love and care about people so much and when I see people acting "strong" for others, I want to hug them so much because I care about people and I want to make sure they are okay and not suffering! I hate seeing people sad and it hurts me to others like that! I want what is best for others and I want them to see people happy! I like when I see people happy and smiling because when I see them happy and smiling, I am happy and smiling! I love when people are happy because I am happy and that makes my heart happy!! I love when people are happy and smiling!!

My comforting words!! 

If I have any comforting words for my Blogger Dreamers, what would my comforting words be? If I have any comforting words for my Blogger Dreamers who might be going through a hard time, my comforting words would be you're worthy! You're loved! I'm here to support you! You're absolutely amazing! To the people who might be staying home moms, you're doing amazing! Don't give up! You got this! To my Blogger Dreamers who might be struggling with mental health issues, you are not in this battle! You're doing the best that you can and that's okay! Please, don't give up! I am here and supporting you through everything! I love you! I care about you so much and I'm praying for you!! 

Why? 

Why would I give those comforting words to my Blogger Dreamers? The reason why I would give those comforting words to my Blogger Dreamers is because when you see people who are struggling, you want to comfort them the best of your ability and I wanted to give my Blogger Dreamers comforting words! I feel like everyone deserves to have comforting words to help them to get through a hard time and I want to help my Blogger Dreamers to the best of my ability! If I can help 1 or 100 people, then I am doing my job right!! I don't want my Blogger Dreamers to feel alone and I don't want them to feel torn down by people who they thought they "cared" about them, but instead they don't and it sad!! I will always support my Blogger Dreamers because I love them and I want what is best for them!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day!! 

In closing, the way I can describe pain is an awful thing because when someone betrays you or did something that was completely wrong of them doing, it shows that they are a terrible person to you and you don't need that in your life! People are toxic and you don't need to be in that environment where people are toxic and they don't care about your feelings one bit! The sadness, anger, and being hurt are all of pain and none of my Blogger Dreamers don't need to go through any of that because none of y'all don't deserve that at all! Y'all deserve love and comforting words! Here is my tip of the day! My tip of the day, cut out people who are toxic and who has caused you so much pain because you are loved by so many people and those toxic people are wasting your energy! Cut them out of your love and focus on what matters the most! I love y'all with all of my heart and I'm here for y'all, no matter what!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! You should never go through pain by yourself! You are loved and don't be around people who don't care about you because you don't need that in your life! People are so toxic and no one needs that because it can hurt your mental health! Don't be around people who are toxic!! For today's quote of the day, it goes like this: "Do Not Mock A Pain That You Have Not Endured". -Toby Mac! I absolutely find this quote relatable because when you see someone in pain and you try to mock it, don't ever do that because don't know what that person is going through until you went through it yourself! I love y'all so much! I hope everyone will have a good a Monday or in other countries, a good Tuesday! Always remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all on the next blog where I will be talking about the word "stupid", so stay tuned for that! I love y'all and I will see y'all soon! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💜

Today's quote of the day! Don't mock someone's pain until you felt it yourself!! 

My poem that I wrote on Thursday, May 11th, 2023! Such a good poem with so many emotions!! 

"Pain changes people,
Some become rude, 
And some become silent".
-Unknown! I love this quote a lot because some people can be rude to you or they can be silent! When people are rude to you, it is because you caused them a lot of hurt! When they are silent, they don't want to talk about it!! 

"Just because I'm strong
enough to handle pain,
doesn't mean I deserve it." 
-Unknown. I find this quote relatable is because just because that person is strong enough to handle the pain that they are going through, it doesn't mean that they deserve it! No one doesn't deserve that pain at all! No one doesn't deserve pain at all!

This week's song of the week! This song is so good and it reminds me that no matter what you do in life or what I do in life, no one can't stop me and I will make sure no one stops me because I will keep going, no matter what!! 

How I analyze life? By: Brandee M. Darden! Friday, 7/7/23

                                               Blog topic: How I analyze life? By: Brandee M. Darden! Friday, 7/7/23! 

Intro to my blog!

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here and welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talk about things that are personal or even makeup and fashion blogs as well! I am so happy to have y'all on a new blog episode for today! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever you are going through, just know you are loved by so many others and please, don't give up! If you are going through a hard time, pray about it and give it to God because he will help you get through it! Before I get into today's blog episode, here is a recap of Wednesday's blog episode! On Wednesday, I talked about my poem "Trying your hardest". When you are working hard on something, you expect people to tell you "Good job" but instead, no one acknowledge your hard work and that's hard! When you are trying your hardest to get through life, no one doesn't that you are trying and that's hard on you! I can see that you are trying and please, don't give up! Keep trying!! For today's blog episode, I will be talking about How I analyze life? In this blog, I will be talking about how do I analyze life? Why do I analyze life like that? How do I analyze my life? Why do I look or analyze life like that? What are some changes could I make to my life? Why could I make some of those changes to my life? If I have any advice about life, what would my advice be? Why would I give out that advice?  Now, let's get into our blogging imagination and get this blog episode started! Shall we? We shall!  

The word "life". What does the word "life" mean to me? Why does the word "life" mean to me? 

What does the word "life" mean to me? The word "life" means a lot to me! I always enjoy the moments in my life! For me, life is so precious! God gave us this creation and each moment, we are living! Yes, life is so hard but we have to live each moment as if it is our last moments together on this earth! We go through moments we are happy or even sad but we have to get through those moments because that's all about living!! Why does the word "life" mean to me? The reason why the word "life" means to me is because there has been times where I wanted to take my own life and for me to say that, it is so hard because I was suicidal for a long time and I am not proud to say that but I know that God was there for me when I was suicidal! I am not proud of the moments that I have went through in my life, but I can say that I am proud for how I am living now! For me, I love getting up each morning and start out my day by reading my bible! It makes me happy! Live your life as if it was your last moment to live! Don't give up! 

How do I analyze life? Why do I analyze life like that? 

How do I analyze life? I analyze life by just living everyday and not complain about what's going on! I live life according to how I am feeling each day! I have days where I want to give up but at the end of the day, I keep pushing through! I don't give up easily! I wake up each morning by reading the bible and working on my blogs or tiktoks! Life isn't worth the complaint and I don't complain about what's going wrong in my life because if I did, I would have a long list about it and I don't have time to complain! Plus, if I try to complain to someone, they wouldn't listen to me!! Life isn't worth complaining! Enjoy life!! Why do I analyze life like that? The reason why I analyze life like that is because life isn't worth complaining and besides, I know so many people who complain more than me which I am not surprised!! Why would you want to complain about life anyways? Life is so precious! Yes, it is hard but at the end of the day, you will get through it and you should always fight through whatever you are going through!

My life! 

How do I analyze my life? The way I analyze my life is I wake up each and every morning either at 5:20 or 6:10 to pray and read my bible each morning! After I do that, I will make my bed and then, work on my tiktok or blog, depending what day it is and stuff like that! I will work on blog stuff throughout my day and talk to some of my friends but I don't have time to complain because I am not that type of a person who wants to complain about anything! I have to hear daily complaints everyday by other people and it is so exhausting! I love how my life! I am proud of my schedule! I wake up knowing that I might not have the perfect life, but I get to wake up knowing that God is on my side and knowing that he sent his darling son to die on the cross for us for our sins! I would love to complain but I am not because you get one life and that's it! Enjoy every minute!! 

Why do I look or analyze my life like that? 

The reason why I look or analyze my life like that is because when I read my bible each morning or I pray, I know that God can hear me! I know if I have a set schedule and highlight when I am done with a certain thing, it helps me keep my life in order! I love how life is! Yes, I might be in a long distance relationship and it is hard on the both of us, but I am so lucky to have an amazing boyfriend who constantly supports me and is always there for me, no matter what! I live my life according to my mood and I am okay with that! I always look on the brighter side of things and I get over what I am going through because I am a warrior, not a complainer! I will conquer things in life and I will get through my hardships in life!! If I am going through the hardest things, I will get through it because that's how strong I am!! I will stand my ground and let people take advantage of me because that's not how I roll! I will stand up for myself because I am strong and I have no doubts about how strong I am!!

The changes in my life! 

What are some changes could I make to my life? The first thing that I would change in my life is to get over my shyness! I am a shy person and in life, I am nervous about meeting new people because what if they don't like me or what if I am weird? I feel like I have overcome that a little bit but I still have long ways to go! The second thing that I would change in my life is not to listen to others complain! When I listen to others complain, it drives me crazy and so I need to let someone's complaints get to me! The third and final thing that I would change in my life is to quit being hard on myself! I am constantly hard on myself and I need to stop being hard on myself because I have so much worth in life and I need to let people know that I am worth so much more than that and stop being hard to myself! 

Why could I make some of those changes to my life? 

The first reason why I would make a change about getting over my shyness is because ever since I could remember, I have always been shy but once I open up, I am okay! I pray that one day, I can quit being shy and learn how to make friends by going up to them instead of people going up to me! The second change that I would make is not to listen to others complaints and the reason why I would change that is because I am constantly listening to people's complaints and I want to tell them to stop complaining and enjoy life but I am afraid if I tell them that, I think that person might get mad and I want people to know that complaining isn't good so please, stop complaining and enjoy life! The third and final change that I would make is quit being hard on myself and the reason why I would change that is because I feel like I put so much pressure on myself and I feel like I am trying so hard to please others when I need to please myself! I need to stop putting myself down and keep trying, no matter what!!

My advice! 

If I have any advice about life, what would my advice be? If I have any advice about life, my advice is to enjoy what you have and who you have because of all that can be gone within an instance! To my complainers who complains about life, please stop complaining! There is much more things in life other than to complain! Your life can be gone within a blink of an eye and all you did is complain! Enjoy life because there are so much things to enjoy and be happy you have a good life! There might be people who are struggling through life but yet, they have a smile on their faces and they are getting by the best way they can! Always smile through life, no matter how hard life is! I love y'all!

Why would I give out that advice? 

The reason why I would give out that advice is because life is so precious and I don't think people realize that something bad could happen to you and you are instantly gone! Your life is precious and one bad thing can happen whether it is a bad car accident or even a drug overdose! Don't let people destroy your life or your path in life because God has a better path for you and if you believe in him and believe in his son, Jesus, your life will be so much better! I want my Blogger Dreamers to be happy and I want them to know that y'all are loved and I am here for y'all no matter what! Choose the right path for yourself and don't go on the wrong path! Everything can be gone within a blink of an eye! You can easily lose love ones and you regret not spending time with them! Spend time with the people who you have because they can be gone fast as well! The moral of this advice is enjoy life to your ability because you get one life and that's it!! 

In closing/ Tip of the day/ Question of the day? 

In closing, life is valuable! Life is worth living! If you are going to constantly complain about the littlest things in life, then are you really living life? I can answer that for y'all- no y'all are not because you are constantly complaining about life and that's not how you should live life! Each passing day is much more exquisite than anything in this world! I am not trying to live y'all's life because I have my own life but I just pray that each of my Blogger Dreamers can make the right decisions in life and never go on the wrong path because I care about y'all so much! Here is my tip and question of the day?! My tip of the day is live life to the fullest because y'all have so much life to live and please, don't give up! For my question of the day, what three things would y'all change in y'all's life? Why would y'all change those things in your life? Sound off in the comments down below and let me know! I would love to read everyone's comments! Please! Thank you so much!! I love y'all so much!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers!! It's your girl aka the Blogger Queen herself, Brandee here to remind everyone that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode! I hope y'all enjoy today's blog episode for today! Please, make the right decisions for your life! To all of the teenagers out there, I understand that y'all are young and sometimes, you make dumb mistakes, but please, make the right decisions in life! Don't turn to drugs or alcohol because that is not what life is all about! To everyone who is adult, please make the right decisions because you are going to live with those decisions for the rest of your life!  To the adults who are in their 20s, your 20s are your learning years! Don't quit trying and don't give up! For today's bible verse of the day, in Ephesians 4:32, it says "Be kind to one another". I find this bible verse relatable because we should always be kind to one another and always help one another! Always treat people with kindness! I love y'all! Happy Friday or in other countries, Happy Saturday! Please, stay safe and remember: "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams" and I will see y'all next week on my makeup and fashion blog page! I love y'all and have a good weekend! This Blogger Queen is out! Peace! ☮✌💙

Today's bible verse of the day! Love this bible verse so much! God would always want us to be kind to one another and I do believe that being kind to one another is very important!

"Life itself is a 
privilege. But to 
live life to the 
fullest- well, that 
is a choice".
Andy Andrews. I love this quote so much because yes, life is a privilege but you have to live your life to the fullest because life is so valuable and it can be gone within an instant! Please, enjoy life!

"I'm in a chapter 
in my life where God
is making me strong before 
making me happy".
-Unknown! I find this quote relatable because before letting God in my life, I wasn't happy at all but now, letting God into my life, I am happy! I have moments where they are hard, but I get through them because of God and I'm blessed to get where I am at today!

"Each new day is 
a blessing. Let go of all 
worries and be grateful 
for all the positive in 
your life".
-Unknown. I love this quote so much because yes, each day is a blessing and when a new blessing comes our way, we need to be grateful and don't worry about the worries and be grateful what you have because it can be gone within an instance! 

To end today's blog episode, I want to share this week's song of the week! For this week's song of the week, I chose "Amygdala" by Agust D! I absolutely love this song so much because it holds a powerful message and Min Yoongi did this song so good! I highly recommend to listen to this song and read the lyrics! Such an amazing song and I love it so much! 

Analyzing my poem "Trying your hardest" by Brandee Marie Darden! 7/5/23

                                           Analyzing my poem "Trying your hardest" by Brandee Marie Darden! Date of blog: Wednesday, 7/5/23!! 

Intro to my blog!! 

Well, hello my Blogger Dreamers! Welcome back to an all new weekly blog episode where I talking about anything that comes to my mind whether it is about my poems or even makeup or fashion! How are y'all doing today? I hope everyone is doing okay and well! Whatever the circumstances might be, just know that I love y'all and I care about y'all so much! I have missed y'all so much and I am so happy that I am back! On Monday, I talked about the song "Amygdala" by Agust D, blog by me aka Brandee Marie Darden! When you have these memories that you want to erase, you want to forget about everything because either that person or something caused you trauma and pain or when someone asked you "how you are doing", you want to lie but you can't because there is so many things going through your mind and you think to yourself "should I tell them what's going on" but at the same time, you don't want to worry them and that's understandable! On today's blog episode, I will be analyzing my poem "Trying your hardest". In this blog, I will be talking about what is this poem about? Why did I write this poem all about? When people doesn't see how hard you are working or see how hard you are trying, how does it make me feel? Why does it make me feel a certain way? If I had to give two separate advices about someone not seeing how hard you are working or you are trying your hardest, but no one hasn't seen it, what is my advices? Why would I give out those advices? Now, let's into our blogging imagination and get started! Shall we? We shall!! 

Talking about my poem! What was my thought process when I was writing this poem? Why did I have a thought process when I was writing this?

On Tuesday, May 5th of this year, I wrote a poem called "Trying your hardest" and this is how it goes "Trying your hardest" by: Brandee Marie Darden! 

"When you are 

trying your hardest,

you are giving 

your 110%, no matter 

what! You are 

always going to 

have tasks that

hard, but 

that doesn't mean

you have to quit! 

Trying your hardest 

will always work 

at the end, no 

matter what! 

Always try your 

hardest in no

matter what you 

do! Don't give up!

Don't give up 

trying"! 

-Love, 

Brandee Marie Darden! 

Date: Tuesday, 5-9-23. What was my thought process when I was writing this poem? My thought process when I was writing this poem was I remember how hard I would be working on a blog or poem or anything like that and no one doesn't see how hard I am working except others who truly believe in me! People don't realize how hard I work on certain things and sometimes, I feel like people don't see why I want to do blogs or why I want to spread my truth! The one thing I know is that God gave me a gift and I am going to use it no matter what! Why did I have a thought process when I was writing this? The reason why I have a thought process when I was writing this because sometimes people doesn't see how hard you are trying or how hard you are working and it is sad that people don't see that!! 

What is this poem about? Why did I write this poem all about? 

This poem is all about trying your hardest! It doesn't matter how hard life is or if someone overlooks how hard you are working, just know that you are trying your hardest! The past two years of me blogging, I had people told me that I have inspired and hearing people tell me that is amazing because it makes my heart happy! I had someone who I love and that person told me that "my blogs are depressing" which breaks my heart because it is hard to put yourself out there and for me, I have been doing for two years and I am so proud of myself! People tend to overlook my hard work or they don't see how hard I am working which makes me discourage! Why did I write this poem all about? The reason why I wrote this poem all about is because when you try your hardest, you are giving your all and to you, that's what matters! When you are trying your best and no one sees you trying your best, it makes you want to give up but in reality, you can't give up because there are people out there who are supporting you and telling you "you got this! Don't give up" and I am that person! Always keep trying because I see you!

My feelings about how hard you are working or how hard you are trying!! 

When people doesn't see how hard you are working or see how hard you are trying, how does it make me feel? Everyone is different when it comes to feelings but for me, when I am working hard on something or I am trying to get through life the best way that I can, it can be challenging at times! When I am trying to calm myself down, it is hard or when I want alone time, but I can't have that time alone because people are always constantly texting me and it is hard to have that! When I am battling with my own issues, but others don't care because they expect me to help them and that's hard for me! I feel like others don't see that I am trying my hardest or how hard that I am working and for me, I feel discourage! I just want people to know and understand that I am a human being and that I have feelings to! I can't just be a therapist! I don't mind helping you but there does come a time where I need space and that's it! 

Why does it make me feel a certain way? 

The reason why it makes me feel a certain way is because when someone thinks I am making excuses or they don't see how much courage that I have built to do blogs, it makes me upset and sad because I am honestly trying and I am working so hard to make myself proud like I should but when people text me while I am working on my blog episode, I get overwhelmed and it makes me want to quit because people don't care how hard I am working and how hard I am trying! Blogging is a way to escape from the world and when someone tries to text me, it frustrates me because I am working on a master piece (in my eyes it is), I want to scream and people doesn't seem to care and that totally makes me angry!! I love blogging and when I am alone listening to soft KPop or BTS music, I am in a whole universe and I love that for me so much!! I am trying to work so hard and I am also trying really hard!! 

My advices!! 

If I had to give two separate advices about someone not seeing how hard you are working or you are trying your hardest but no one hasn't seen it, what is my advices? To my Blogger Dreamers who is working really hard but those people are not seeing how hard you are working, my advice to you is show those people what they are missing because I see you and I understand you! Keep working hard! To my Blogger Dreamers who are trying your hardest but no one hasn't seen it, my advice for you is always keep trying, no matter what! Don't stop because you are doing great and I am so proud of you! You got this! I believe in you, no matter what! Don't listen to the haters! Show them that you aren't stopping and you are going to keep going, no matter what! I am so proud of y'all!!

Why would I give out those advices? 

The reason why I would give out the first advice is because I know to my readers out there, I see you trying your hardest and you are trying to help everyone you come in contact with, but you don't need to help others! Please, help yourself because if those people doesn't see how hard you are working to help them, quit on them! Don't help them anymore!! The second and final reason why I gave out the second advice is because you are trying your hardest and that is what counts! When people don't see that you get up everyday despite of having any mental health problems or the voices is telling you to quit, don't because I also see you trying hard and I am so proud of you for not quitting! Please to my Blogger Dreamers, don't quit! I love you and I see you! Keep fighting!

In closing/ Tip of the day! 

In closing, to all the people who might be struggling with mental health problems or if you are a stay at home mom or dad or anything that you might be going through, please whatever you do, don't give up! I see you trying! I see you working hard! For some people, I might seem happy but deep down inside, I am trying my hardest to not to cry at times because I mentally struggling in my head! I feel like a failure at times and that's hard for me to think that way but I always try to keep pushing through and I always work hard and keep trying, no matter what! I had a hard time to love myself but I never gave up loving myself because I truly love myself for who I am and I am so blessed to love myself for the way I am! Here is my tip of the day: My tip of the day is don't quit because I see you how hard you are working and how hard you are trying! Life isn't easy, but you are working hard and you are trying your hardest and for that, I am so proud of you! Please, keep doing you! I love you and you got this!! I believe in you!

Hello, my Blogger Dreamers! It's the Blogger Queen, Brandee here to let everyone know that y'all have reached the end of today's blog episode for today! I hope everyone enjoyed today's blog episode! I just want to tell everyone that y'all are doing an amazing job and I am so proud of each and one of my Blogger Dreamers! Whatever you are going through, I am so proud of you! I am here for y'all if y'all need anything! I care about each and one of my Blogger Dreamers so much and I am proud of y'all! Keep doing y'all! For today's bible verse of the day, in Ephesians 1:4, it says "We Are Chosen And Loved by God". I love this bible verse so much because God loves us for who we are! He chose us because he loves so much! He will always love us, no matter what! I love y'all and remember "Dream Big! Don't give up on your dreams"! Happy Wednesday or in other countries, Happy Thursday and I will see y'all on Friday where I will be talking about How I analyze life? Stay fabulous and this Blogger Queen is out! Peace! 🕊☮💛

Today's bible verse of the day! Such an amazing bible verse and I love it a lot!!

My poem about "Trying your hardest" that I wrote on Tuesday, 5/9/23. I am very proud of this poem and I pray that it reaches out to a lot of people! Just know that you are seen and I see you working hard! Don't give up!

"Your hardest times often 
lead to the greatest 
moments of your life. Keep 
going. Tough situations 
build strong people in the 
end". -Unknown. I absolutely find this quote relatable because you are going through situations that are tough and people can't see that you are trying but once you hit the finishing line, you did it and you are strong because you kept going and I am so happy for you! Keep doing you!

"Life will always be
the hardest when you
are crossing over to a 
new level. don't get
discouraged".
-Unknown! I love this quote so much because you are going to have the hardest moments life but when you come in a bump in the road and you think to yourself "this is hard" but you have to remind yourself, "you got this" because you! Don't quit!